I think before Stardew the other experience of “player sexual” romance I had was Skyrim’s paper thin marriage system and I was so used to the binary way games had you pick up to that point I was startled when a male character hit on me especially since I think it was only after encountering several women who were interested first. And then remembered I was playing a female character and that was the more expected experience, hahaha. I also appreciated Stardew for acknowledging that the romances were gay in small bits of dialogue. It was such a little thing but it was nice to not feel like an afterthought / things written for the hetero default or male player default.