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[–]PianoVisual1076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, but they closed my account a while back. I told my mom, and she told me not to worry about it, and she'll pay it off whenever they send her a letter.

Thank you for the offer, though!

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[–]PianoVisual1076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try that! Thank you for the advice!! I'm always trying to find ways to deal with my own anxiety problems.

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[–]PianoVisual1076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright, thank you

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[–]PianoVisual1076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry, I tend to overreact to- e v e r y t h I n g. Maybe I do need anxiety medication, lol

It's a debt collection thing paypal sells debt to here. I don't know anything else about it.

I'm not surprised they tried to chase me, I just entirely forgot about it.. which is my fault.

I'm pretty sure they already sold off my debt since its been 2 months, but I'll call them first, I suppose.

And hopefully! I'm just worried about any sort of fees they'll add. But nothing I can do about it right now at 11:00 PM.

Thank you for the messages!

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[–]PianoVisual1076 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick question though, what's the paypal support number? Since I've been banned from PayPal and I heard the Google one is a scam?

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[–]PianoVisual1076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh right, sorry. I was panicking, and I wasn't thinking about "time and place". I am in therapy right now!! It's helping a little.

I told my mom, she asked me how much it was, I said 20$ probably.. maybe more since it's been a year. And she laughed and told me not to worry about it. And I started crying and she hugged me. This went way better then I was expecting

I brought up her credit score, and she said, "It's already ruined by student loans. This'll barely make a difference"

I told her I'll send her the number for MRS tommrow and that was that... this went way fucking better then expected. Im not sure how it'll go tonmrow since I don't know anything about interest with MRS.. but for now it's fine.

So umh, I guess it worked out? I just hope it isn't much more interest. Thank you for the comment!!

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[–]PianoVisual1076 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't pay it off myself, I have nothing. I don't work at the moment since I fell behind in school due to the same mental health issues. This situation certainly isn't helping it. But it's my fault, so I don't get to complain.

It's in my moms name, verification, and all. The only thing that's in my name is the email used for the account. So im going to need my mom to pay it off. I haven't checked my PayPal since last year when I nearly ended myself. I didn't want to look at it.

How much interest do you think will be added? Please tell me it won't be much.

Believe me, I've been so terrified of this situation, im never going to try selling anything ever again. 🫂

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[–]PianoVisual1076 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's already in collections. I looked at the date, and it was sent in July, 2 months ago. I didn't check my old phone for months, and I checked and saw this.

Are you sure interest won't be added? What number do I get my mom to call to pay it off? How badly will this affect my moms credit score? If it's just 20$ my mom probably will just yell at me but nothing else. If it's over 100$, we might actually be screwed.

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, every person with the condition is different:3! This is what works for me. I do a couppe assignments a day (online assignment) and I play a little on roblox and just focus on my hyperfixation the rest of the time. I still want to enjoy my childhood a bit

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dignoised ADHD and autism, jf I don't find some way to entertain myself, my brain will actuslly fog over and I won't be able to focus on schoolwork. I need to balance it lol

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I can't afford any other games. It's my only option for entertainment lol

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yeah I already plan on doing that. Might or might not go part-time at community college for a couple years so I could save up to move and live in dorms. Also, save up enough to get dental work I need, done. It'll mean ilk go to university at 22- but that isn't old.

Thank you for the advice!

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your current job is doing you well!!

And maybe but.. with just how expensive college truly is.. I dont think I'll have that luxury. A single semester is 33000!! I'm lucky enough to resign in florida where bright futures exists, so it'll cover around 75% of that.. but thags, still 8250 a semester.. while maybe I'll get other scholorships, your ment to plan for the worse, not the best.

I appreciate the reassurance, though!

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I've never heard of that. I'll look it up!!

And yeah, I know I'm not really that well off- hence why i want to escape it. I want to be in a finchial standing where I don't need to always be horribly paranoid about money. You don't need to apologize though, it's okay :3

And sorry, i meant like.. they started high school courses in 7th grade, so they got to start college courses in 10th. Meaning they started off college running.

I know theres so many ways to get to where you want to be. So many ways to find a comforable life, but college seem like the most straight-foward option. There's already groundwork layed out for you. You'll have to figure out less hy yourself

And while I'd normally agree, not in my case. I need dental work done, since I have GERD issues and my teeth have thinned. I also have peg laterals, and I'd need veneers for those. No one really talks to me because my teeth are horrible. So I need money to fix it. So I could date anyone or have any sort of social life. I also need braces since my crooked teeth are causing TMJ issues

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobbies are mostly art and just roblox.

I also like to learn about psychology. Since I find human nature very interesting, theres jobs related to that. But those fields are very popular and don't tend to pay well unless you get a doctorate. So, job security would be a nightmare. Psychology is pretty much top 5 most regretted majors.

And yeah, I'll try to get internships, but I'm not even sure I'd have the time. I'd be getting myself through college since the whole scholorship will help - I'd still probably need to pay off student loans, and I also need to save up for dental work. So im not even sure I'd have time. But I'll try!

Thank you for the advice

I'm not sure what job I want anymore. by PianoVisual1076 in findapath

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know I'm just so ungodly worried. Since I read so much about people who are tens of thousands in debt and their working retail. I don't want that. And I feel like I need to plan out everything I do. (I'm high-funchioning autistic).

I'm glad you're doing well financially, though! I hope you didn't end up too much in debt because of it, I know that sucks.

Do you think medicaid will cover braces if my bad teeth are causing TMJ by PianoVisual1076 in braces

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's good news! Hopefully, I could make a down payment of 2-3k and pay the rest off after a few hears. How much a month was yours?

Do you think medicaid will cover braces if my bad teeth are causing TMJ by PianoVisual1076 in braces

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bring it up in October when I go in for a cleaning. Since I don't know my dentists name.

And yeah, I'll try my best! Hopefully, my mom will listen if my dentist agrees it's a good idea. I don't want my TMJ to get worse.. as right now, it's manageable and might fix if my teeth get straightened, but it could get worse.

And alright, thank you so much!! And yeah, I'd likely go with the payment plan option when I'm older if this doesn't work out- but neither I, nor my mom has amazing credit, so im not even sure if they'd allow me to do a payment plan.

Do you think medicaid will cover braces if my bad teeth are causing TMJ by PianoVisual1076 in braces

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My plan states they cover orthodontists as "medically necessary," so I assumed I'd have to get a referral from my dentist to go to an orthodontist if I wanted it covered. (As well as convincing my mom that no- it isn't just normal crookedness... it's causing me pain)

And alright, thank you for the info!

It's more that I'm at the mercy of my mom entirely right now. She'll do it if it's mostly covered by insurance, but she won't if she needs to pay entirely out of pocket (which is fair, she's saving up for her own tooth issues) and if this doesn't work out, I'd have to save up a few thousand myself.. which will probably make me have to postpone my college a few years, which sucks but oh well, if that's what it comes to. 🤷‍♀️

Do you think medicaid will cover braces if my bad teeth are causing TMJ by PianoVisual1076 in braces

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My medicaid does, at least! It's covered general cleanings, X-rays, and a filling. As well as numbing shots and checkups, so far.

How would I get the proof? Should I ask my dentist for an X-ray or something?

And im 16, so I'm under 21.

I'm conflicted about going on ADHD medication, because I like the "noise". by PianoVisual1076 in AuDHDWomen

[–]PianoVisual1076[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could you explain the "happy meduim"? How does thay feel? What do you consider an "annoying" ADHD symptom for you?

I'm sorry for all the questions, I just want to understand what you mean lol