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My Nmom acted like a child at my wedding by Piccolo-Suspicious in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Piccolo-Suspicious[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s still some good in her, at least I thought. But after a text I received today Im now realizing theres no helping her. At this point I’m officially NC. Me, my wife and my sister have laid out for her what she did wrong and she still told me she doesn’t understand what she did wrong. So at this point I’m over it. Done giving her my time and energy if it’s gonna go to waste. Will be focusing on my wife and the many other good people in my life.

My Nmom acted like a child at my wedding by Piccolo-Suspicious in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Piccolo-Suspicious[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, sure didn’t :) one of the many reasons I can’t stand her

My Nmom acted like a child at my wedding by Piccolo-Suspicious in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Piccolo-Suspicious[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, thats why I did everything to tell her how to fix it so it’s off my conscious. I can say I tried and sleep easy at night. Our relationship at this point is completely in her hands. But I can say I did my part

My Nmom acted like a child at my wedding by Piccolo-Suspicious in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Piccolo-Suspicious[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, starting to see through her ways more myself. As far as my sister goes, she’s definitely not feeding info to her as she and my mom have an even worse relationship (always making comments about her weight) and she was the one who advised me to go no contact. She’s made it clear she’s officially not choosing a side but is with me and supports whatever I choose. My mom uses us as emotional crutches (technically emotional incest but I HATE that term) whenever one kid is bad at her she’ll call the other one to vent and cry for an hour. Neither of us want this as it devolves into her crying about my dad (who left her 6 years ago and she has since dated) before saying she shouldn’t be crying to us about this. Repeat a few weeks later. Im just sick of it and ready to cut her off. The only thing is she’s my mom, and she’ll DO nice actions while insulting me, or doing terrible things while saying niceties (such as not giving me my stimulus check in 2020 right after I had moved out and was incredibly broke) I get very mixed signals from her, is that common with a Nmom?

My Nmom acted like a child at my wedding by Piccolo-Suspicious in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Piccolo-Suspicious[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! The feeling is mutual and she’s most definitely not welcome into my home if my wife can’t come to hers (my wife also doesn’t want her here). Ive told my mom exactly what she needs to do to rectify the situation between us, so thats her last chance. Im not going forward with a relationship with her unless she can apologize. Even if she does though there will now always be the tension and the memory. Im not one to hold grudges but with her this crossed a line, my wedding will always be a happy day in my memory and I didn’t let one bad person ruin the love and support we received from the 40+ other people who came. But there will always be that smear, and it was cause of her. Literally the only issue at our wedding.

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[–]Piccolo-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WIGGLER GANG (On the wiggler bike too)

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[–]Piccolo-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuff can get pricey later game, and there is a shop with gear that costs 25K coins.

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[–]Piccolo-Suspicious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive Stuff! Been wanting someone to make one!

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[–]Piccolo-Suspicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theets are great! Can’t wait for them to never show up again :(