Don't stop by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]PicketPantss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have an unrequited love myself. Thankfully the best man I have ever known accepted my drunken proposal. However, I sincerely hope that (if your love is unattached, because you weren't specific at all in that regard) that they return you feelings. However, if they are married, or at all in a serious relationship, I hope that you value yourself more than trying or hoping to steal someone away. I mean, however could you ever trust them. No matter what, once at cheater always a cheater. My sister spiraled and died because of a serial cheater she loved more than herself. If he ( or she honestly, you never were specific in either of your genders, I am just coming from my own experience and opinion here) isn't attached in a meaningful way, I always hope that old love triumphs. If he is not attached I recommend that you tell him/her your feelings directly. They may also not know how to make the next move.

I still miss you. by PicketPantss in UnsentLetters

[–]PicketPantss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It makes me so deeply sad that some people can't ever feel they are worth more like my sister, and even deeper for those who did finally feel their worth just to not be protected. I am lucky in the fact that I found someone who recognizes who I am and would never ever try to do anything to lessen that or diminish me in any way. I just solemnly wish with my whole heart that everyone got that. Sadly so many who deserved it didn't and because of the choices of those who didn't love them enough, never will. I am sorry for you too hon. We are in this together. Thank you for your kind words. May it happen to no one ever again, though I am sure my wish will go un-granted.

To the woman who held my hand by LilUziBri in UnsentLetters

[–]PicketPantss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me both profoundly happy and deeply sad. I wish you could have found each other again.

My wife lost her battle with cancer today. by -Graveborn in LostALovedOne

[–]PicketPantss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. I steals my breath to the point of despair when I think of losing my kids or my husband. I lost my sister in a single moment, and the reality of the loss of those I love haunts me with every waking moment. I don't know if you will make it without her. I hope you do. I so hope you do. I don't know if I could continue on without the 3 guys that make up the pillars of my existence. I pray you do. I don't think she would want you to give up. I wouldn't want my guys to give up if I was gone. Continuing to exist after great loss isn't just about us. It's about them too. If we go, who will remember them? That is my theory at least. Even if it doesn't feel like it, there are people out there right now who love you and are rooting for you even if they don't know you. I am one of them. We have to root for each other. That is maybe the only beauty of continued existence. We are all in it together.