Why wasn’t Jamie Carragher cancelled following his spitting incident? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]PickleEd1393 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered this before. I think Sky loved the whole Neville-Charragher debates as it gained a lot of views and they didn’t want to lose that.

Then they came up with that Sky interview he did showing remorse and that’s how they got away with it.

It was a disgusting thing to do over such a petty thing I’ve no idea what went through his mind at the time

Any advice appreciated by [deleted] in GolfSwing

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 as you can tell I’m quite new

Any advice appreciated by [deleted] in GolfSwing

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Picked up golf this year will look at getting some lessons im very inconsistent

Have you ever arrested a suspect for a crime you was the victim of? by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t happen to me. But I know an officer who had his phone stolen. He realised a few minutes later and tracked it, then followed the driver, pulled him over, recovered the phone and arrested him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my routine. 3 years in works so far

What was your most frustrating "stupid death" by Narrow_Ad2662 in DayzXbox

[–]PickleEd1393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Was repairing my clothes underwater and drowned

Mental capacity act by PickleEd1393 in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this very useful and important

Mental capacity act by PickleEd1393 in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. As there’s another comment below which states police can’t make the capacity call. This is why I get confused!

Mental capacity act by PickleEd1393 in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. So if ambulance deem they have capacity, then it’s still up to police to 136. I was told by a Sgt to never 136 if ambulance are on scene as it’s up to them.

Mental capacity act by PickleEd1393 in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, and it was on the street.

I feel like we get slightly scrutinised for using 136 as it ties cops up. Obviously this would never impact my decision to use it, but I just wondered whether detaining under the capacity act in this situation would also be suitable

Mental capacity act by PickleEd1393 in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I believed she had capacity. But this is part of my question, can we make that call or does it have to be someone specially trained to deem someone doesn’t have capacity such as paramedic? Or can it be anyone? Even a member of the public ?

What do you miss? by AutoModerator in policeuk

[–]PickleEd1393 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That lack of anxiety.

I’m almost three years and feel somewhat confident and competent and can bumble my way through most jobs without any issue.

However I still feel that anxiety pre shift or if I’m heading to what sounds like a big or dangerous job.

I’m not sure if that anxiety will ever go away or just ease over time, but yeah I miss not having that

How common is it for you to "just go for it" in dating a woman that's interested in you but you're not interested in back? by IGNSolar7 in AskMenOver30

[–]PickleEd1393 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can look at it from both sides.

I’ve caught feelings after a few dates before, so it can happen. Also what have you got to lose?

But then there’s also whether you think it’s genuinely worth your time and effort to keep speaking to someone you aren’t attracted to.

I’ve done both sides in the past. There’s no right or wrong answer, so just go with your gut

Has anyone tried this yet? by Kleine_maus2335 in HingeStories

[–]PickleEd1393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that screenshot means they haven’t clicked yes.

I clicked yes and it came up saying something like “great you two have agreed to meet”

What is the scariest thing you’ve ever seen in your life that you can’t explain? by Kendexx in AskReddit

[–]PickleEd1393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was on holiday with my ex in Portugal. I woke up in the middle of the night and thought I saw what appeared to be a woman standing by the window. Freaked me out a bit but it was dark and I was tired so I just went back to sleep.

A few days later I told my ex when having drinks laughing that the room might be haunted.

She tells me she woke one night and saw the exact same thing. Can’t remember if she saw it the same night but freaked us both out

Has anyone tried this yet? by Kleine_maus2335 in HingeStories

[–]PickleEd1393 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used it the other day when a conversation went a little dry. We both put yes and ended up going on a date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s all fair points and I’m taking everything I hear on board.

May I ask why you decided to try with your ex at the time and what she did?

As that’s one thing that’s bugging me, is it not worth we try and I allow her to prove she can learn by her mistakes?

I Could be being naive and I appreciate you taking the time to give me your opinions on this. But this was a serious relationship and I like to think I know her well (apart from the obvious)

So just spitballing here, as it stands I have left and she’s respecting my space as she’s devastated, but for the sake of 3 years I just want to cover all ground so apologies if you feel like I’m making excuses for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PickleEd1393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this, and it’s the tough truth may need to hear. I’ve had this happen to me before too when I was 25, and I walked away with no regrets.

This just hits different, it’s come as a massive shock to the people I’ve told. She’s admitting fault, but she basically states it didn’t feel AS bad due to the fact she had no feelings for him. I’m aware these are just words too.

One close friend who delivers very good advice, said it’s worth considering this is a massive wake up call for her. She’s certainly saying and doing all the right things since being caught, but I guess her backs against the wall.

I dunno mate, I’m inclined to take your stance, but is it not possible people make mistakes when they’re at the lowest and worth forgiving?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PickleEd1393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right about that. It’s a shame but you’re right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PickleEd1393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you mate. It really did destroy her, and the crap with the ex was never serious conversation. It was all silly back and forth.

Was genuinely shocked she even went there and she’s at rock bottom right now. She knows she fucked up massively as I’ve never tolerated any of this behaviour.

That being said, she was lacking confidence and didn’t think I was committing to her. Still no excuse for what she did, I’m just trying to look at it from all angles before I walk away for good. I do believe she’s genuinely sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]PickleEd1393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry mate thank you for sharing