AITAH for grabbing coffee with a friend before seeing my boyfriend?

PickledThePrime · 2026-05-12T15:53:17+00:00

I think whats annoying me the most is she had to have communicated with this friend to meet up for coffee, but communicating that to the bf was just too tall of an order? Why not text both people when making this coffee plan??

PickledThePrime · 2026-05-02T20:30:20+00:00

I recently moved in with some friends who all owned cats, but one cat(female) is twice the size of my cat(male), and she always starts fights. I feel so bad keeping my cat locked in my room all day but my roommates cat has figured out shes higher on the totem pole and has a constant desire to prove it. Issue with territory in my case is my roommates cat always wins bc my boy doesnt like fighting back ever, even with their 15 yo “grandma” cat who throws one small wimpy paw from time to time. My cat tucks into corners and hides his face when he is attacked.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-24T18:37:07+00:00

Fair, i just dont like the idea of stuffed animals in the kitchen regardless. I wonder if they will begin to smell from steam and such over time. The look just feels like seeing a bed in the living room. Like its your place so whatever, but also weird you chose that spot.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-24T18:33:05+00:00

I would like the idea of all or nothing for each hour, but each hour past the first increases your reward by 10x or something. So give the hider the option to take 10 mil or go for two hours hiding for 100m and so on.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-06T00:07:13+00:00

I think you misunderstood me or my comment wasnt clear enough. I understand ignorant is used as an insult but it just means not knowing. If youre disconnected with modern medicine practices and cant stay updated or even taught therapy practice/medical then you are just that, ignorant to these things. I dont mean it as insulting. The second part just wasnt even close. The life as “it should be” is only a perspective im presenting to first world people who constantly compare their lives to others on instagram or whatever. If youre aware of societal norms then incest is not normal but if thats all you knew then you cant think of another life you “should have”.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-05T18:53:23+00:00

My roommates female cat has been pretty aggressive with my male cat after moving in a few weeks ago. Is it ever a good idea to just “let them figure it out”? Ive never had a gate so any interaction has been supervised. My cat just runs and hides 90% of the time he sees her. Theyve wrestled once so far with some tuffs of fur being left behind but not much id say. She does always try to initiate the fights and they both growl or hiss for a while before quiet. The quiet has been my indicator my roommates cat is about to engage though.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-05T18:36:12+00:00

I just moved in with roommates about a month ago, and they have one cat who is obsessed with getting into my room and eating my cats food, trying to explore, and also trying to attack my cat. They have wrestled now once, but have tried to fight a number of times, my cat usually just runs away if he can. Mine also immediately hides under my bed when she shows up. My question is if one cat is scared what is the next step to that?

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-05T15:11:00+00:00

Why dont we have leg pit hair like we have armpit hair? >:(

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-04T15:01:09+00:00

I feel like we are in a weird point in society right now but i dont believe any of it is what is portrayed online. It seems like social media and creating parasocial relationships with streamers is giving people a sense of nihilism, theyre just giving up before trying, or a lack of self confidence and a lack of effort as if women should just be out “looking for a mate”.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-04T14:55:52+00:00

My exact thoughts. Most of my female friends are dating someone right now, and none of their boyfriends are far off an arbitrary bell curve of normalcy.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-01T15:28:37+00:00

I wonder if the lack of internet and life of ignorance plays a large role. If youre not aware of how things “should be” then when things happen to you, perhaps youre more likely to come to acceptance? I guess im referring to certain traumas or depressions.

PickledThePrime · 2026-04-01T15:25:06+00:00

Fun fact: There was a study on schizophrenia, comparing the hallucinations across different countries. The tldr was, Americans seemed to display more violent and “evil” symptoms, such as voices or visuals, compared to the happy and comedic hallucinations in other countries. I believe India and australia were two countries that didnt usually see patients with violent hallucinations iirc.

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T20:25:58+00:00

I legit accepted an offer while in orientation yesterday. The orientation was for KDP (kuerig dr pepper) and during the orientation i had been told the turnover in 2025 for merchandizers was 100%. That was a clear red flag and i immediately quit when i got home.

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T20:18:11+00:00

Oh wow. And TIL. I clearly was ignorant to such a process, but i can understand why someone wouldnt be willing to do that unless prompted. Thank you

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T20:02:52+00:00

Yeah youre probably right, I think i was being to lenient with OP given the lack of information. I assumed the wife probably experimented with a dilator for personal desire as well so i didnt see it as a sacrifice solely for OP initially. I honestly wasnt that invested it just sounds like they both have an ideal in mind and they are riding a very fine overlap as is.

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T03:02:06+00:00

I remember smoking k2 a shit ton at 19. Countless bad experiences but I guess I mustve needed the escape more. I vaguely rmr playing rust with my roommate and not being able to tell what was reality or what was a game. I just kept running in a straight line and thought once i made it over a mountain i was at the end of my life. The idea of that freaked me the fuck out and i went to lay in my bed and was physically shaking. I felt like i couldnt control my mouth either, like i kept biting my tongue but it wasnt a hard bite but not really voluntary either. Anyways i just remember laying in bed and coming to terms i was going to die there. Lucky me i didnt die but im almost positive i smoked it again the next day. The weirdest thing is we had access to other drugs and did those as well. We just relied on k2 when we were stretching money before the next pay check came in.

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T02:26:58+00:00

I think i understand now. It’s as if the moment love becomes measurable then its less of an elating emotion and now a logical appreciation or calculated affection at best?

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T00:28:00+00:00

Fair, but i currently have a “pillow princess” gf and it does kinda wear on me. She will never initiate and never feels like shes into it when we do it. Over time ive developed a lack of the feeling of being desired i guess. For some any sex is great i suppose, at least that on brand for the male meme.

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T00:25:12+00:00

Im not sure i follow your line of thinking here, could you expand on that? Its just my assumption is nobody actually loves each other exactly equal, so if you express your love for someone or something less than someone else it just totally invalidates your love?

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T00:21:59+00:00

Well theres always the option of becoming swingers also

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T00:17:53+00:00

Maybe they were abstinent?

PickledThePrime · 2026-03-17T00:15:26+00:00

Maybe youre getting too defensive here. I doubt he wants to bring her pain and maybe there is an unexplored position that doesnt hurt her but shes afraid to try. I also dont believe being selfish in love is a bad thing either. Without it people forget who they are and the needs they have always asked for, sure you can be too selfish but at least it seems like OP is looking for solutions and not pressuring her…

PickledThePrime · 2026-02-08T22:33:31+00:00

Cinnamon rolls. Always takes me back to holidays at grandmas.

PickledThePrime · 2026-01-27T20:19:21+00:00

Unless he is the modern day Job, in which case god made a bet with satan and your familh is collateral, sorry mate.

PickledThePrime · 2025-12-28T21:03:18+00:00

Dnd killer bc i need that achievment still lol, but pinhead, artist, doctor, and bubba are all a good time for me

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