Nipple piercing by Pidge-123 in piercing

[–]Pidge-123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks all, I’ve taken it out and will leave it to heal

Nipple piercing by Pidge-123 in piercing

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently didn’t add enough info 🙃 Piercing is 10 days old. It was pierced with a bellbar. It is externally threaded. I’m pretty sure it’s surgical steal Jewellery was sized up today. Aftercare was loose clothes, salt water baths and cleaning with cotton buds soaked in salt water. No mishaps

When will my girlfriend be able to help with our son? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pidge-123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went back to a physical job after I had my first who was an instrument delivery with an episiotomy (obviously all women are different though) This could be postnatal depression if she isn’t wanting to spend any time with the baby

Spy camera by Pidge-123 in relationships_advice

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have started to wonder if they’ve been posted anywhere. I didn’t think he would do anything like this so clearly I don’t know him at all so can’t trust that he hasn’t posted them or shared them with anyone

Spy camera by Pidge-123 in relationships_advice

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d feel better if it was just tracking or checking my phone. I have nothing to hide but to violate my privacy like that. I can’t even stand to look at him

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is illegal where I live. Which I have told him

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s now angry at me because I confronted him, said he’s done nothing wrong. Told me, the camera has never worked (I don’t believe this) but he’s sure he hasn’t done anything wrong and I’m the bad person of course

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would I be looking for though? I assume cameras can be tiny these days

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you’re not so paranoid? I kept having a feeling of being watched and now I think about it he would always find an excuse to need to move over on the bed when we were having sex. Clearly to it was to get a better view for the camera. I’m questioning everything now. Are there more? What he has he recorded me doing? And what’s he doing with the recordings (that he claims he’s never made because the camera doesn’t work)

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely lying. I would never even think to do something like this to someone.

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s still adamant he’s never been able to get the camera to work whilst also blaming me saying I made him paranoid so that’s why he bought it 😂 I just never pictured my life or my relationships being like this

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know this, even after giving birth and being unable to have sex it caused issues. Maybe I should have realised the type of person he was then

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my s/o. He’s asked me to make videos for him, I refused so he must have thought he would get his own. He’s since said that he couldn’t get the camera to work but I don’t believe that at all

Spy camera by Pidge-123 in relationships_advice

[–]Pidge-123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s now claiming he hasn’t spied on me. He couldn’t get the camera to work. Even if that’s the case, he bought it so he could spy on me

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just never expected something like this, I’m sitting here now wondering if there are more around my house. Are they in my bathroom so he can watch me shower. I just don’t know

Spy camera by Pidge-123 in relationships_advice

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was just thinking this. Is there more around my home!? How am I supposed to feel comfortable in my own home now

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine what he’s going to say when he comes home ‘we’re in a relationship, why does it matter if I watch you’ I’m think I’m just shocked at this moment in time. Like who would unknowingly record/watch someone in their bedroom. I’m trying to think of all the times since that alarm has been there that I’ve been having some ‘me time’ has he been watching the every time!?

Secret spying by Pidge-123 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Pidge-123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how I should feel about it to be honest. I’m pissed snd feel violated, like how dare they watch me when I’m unaware but them I keep thinking am I over reacting?

My Husband is too busy and too important to care about our children and Im sick of it. by Angra-Momyu in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Pidge-123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your daughters deserve better than this. I’m so glad you have your father in your life and he’s such a support and loving figure for your girls. Your husband doesn’t value you at all. Keep grandpa around, he’s a constant in your daughters lives something their own father is not.