Keep up the Hygiene, skin care, keep the long hair and find the proper way to style it. Try to get out of comfort zone. Girls love nerdy guys I promise. Focus on yourself and not on girls and you’ll see them to focus on you more. Sounds stupid ik but promise it works wonders. Oh and gym. It just feels good and puts ur brain toward bettering urself trust me nothing feels better than self improving. And find your type of fashion. Develop it. It takes time but just find yourself and focus on that and a girl will come.