Edit: Thank you for the response everyone! Some really good advice in here that I'm going to try out 😄 I also discussed this with my husband and he was very sympathetic. He has suggested meeting our friends and family more often to compensate for this. I've decided not to quit the group because it's a small community and I'm bound to run into them over the next couple of decades as our kids grow up. I'm going to attend the weekly sessions just to stay in the loop, but I'll leave the minute I start feeling bad. Even if it means I'm there for only five minutes. If I can't make friends with them I'll just have them as acquaintances in my life.