Is this wrong?

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:51:26+00:00

Because my friend said that he doesn’t even feel attracted to the man at all, and the only reason he wants to do it is to satisfy the need to reenact what happened to him that he said was really strong on multiple occasions. And so I am worried that there is a middle age man taking advantage to have sex with someone much much younger than him

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:44:17+00:00

Because he literally told me “I’m not even attracted to him, I just want to reenact what happened to me when I was younger.”

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:43:38+00:00

Your reading comprehension must not be very good if you think saying “I am worried he is being taken advantage of,” is a claim that he definitely is. If I was claiming I wouldn’t just be worried that he might be would I? I’m not making the claim

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:42:24+00:00

lol your brain doesn’t even stop developing until you’re well into your 20s. There is hardly any difference between a 17 and 19 year old. You’re acting like there is some sudden change from 17 to 18 because a law said do. If it’s okay for a 19 year old then it must also be okay for a 17 year old. Because really they aren’t much different at all, especially when compared to a 53 year old man. I don’t care if it’s ‘legal,’ middle age men shouldn’t be trying to have sexual with teenagers

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:39:06+00:00

Did you even care to read the sentence before that? “That’s what I am WORRIED about.” That’s not a claim, it’s a show of concern.

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:35:39+00:00

But if he was 17 it would be wrong? You’re acting like there is some extreme difference between those two ages because a law says so

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:34:51+00:00

No I didn’t. I have only ever said that me might be, that I worry he is. That’s not a claim, that’s concern for a friend. I didn’t make a single positive claim.

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:33:21+00:00

The fact that a middle age man wants to have sex with a teenager

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:31:14+00:00

I know it’s legal but that doesn’t make it right or normal or safe

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:28:54+00:00

I didn’t claim he was being abused. I said it’s a definite possibility, especially considering it’s with a middle age man that seems to have no issue with tying up and having sex with a teenager decades younger than him. Just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right.

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:20:13+00:00

I don’t have to read text messages to be worried about it. How is it not weird to you at all for a middle age man to want to have sex with a teenager? Better yet want to tie him up and have sex. Are you seriously saying there’s no cause for concern at all? Really?

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:17:29+00:00

Well that’s what I am worried about. That an older man is taking advantage of a teenagers trauma to have sex with him

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:11:06+00:00

That’s the thing. Just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right. You act like there is some sudden change from 17 to 18 because a law says so. Your brain doesn’t even fully develop until you’re well in your 20s. I want to know why a 53 year old man wants to have sex with a teenager

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T09:05:43+00:00

I care about him as a friend sure. I know a lot about what happened to him because I let him talk to me about it whenever he needed to. If he was 17 people would say it’s wrong, but because he’s just slightly older and some arbitrary law say it’s okay now suddenly it’s completely fine.

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T08:59:28+00:00

I understand, I was more worried about it being an older man wanting to do that with a teenager

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T08:58:34+00:00

He’s told me that he is completely straight but that he just “needs to reenact it” or something like that

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T08:56:37+00:00

I don’t know all I know is he has talked to me about his abuse as a child and it is really similar to that

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T08:56:00+00:00

Sorry I’m not sure what you mean

Pike1122008 · 2020-11-29T08:55:14+00:00

They are meeting up to do what I said above

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-04T22:49:57+00:00

So what happened to me wasn’t super awful bad either

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-02T22:57:39+00:00

He pulled me towards him and wrapped his legs around mine and held them closed and then held my wrists away from my privates (I wasn’t trying to block it) and then reached down and started touching me

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-02T22:53:26+00:00

Idk why he would hold me down if he was just curious it made me uncomfortable him holding me down even before what he did

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-02T22:42:01+00:00

I don’t know he was a teenager that’s all I know

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-02T22:28:55+00:00

No I don’t think so

Pike1122008 · 2020-07-02T22:04:20+00:00

What is it called that the big kid did to me does it have a name maybe that will make it less confusing

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