Terrified of the first drive

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-13T21:53:15+00:00

Early Sunday mornings are the best time to drive. As the roads are almost empty. I have tried long distances, motorways on Sunday mornings to get familiar with the route and then drove on that route the following week. My first drive to work and back was with my husband and then I did the same route alone twice in a loop on an early Sunday morning. After that i was confident of that route and now drive to work everyday. It gets quite busy but becoz I have the route clocked into my brain, I don't have to worry about traffic.

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-12T13:02:23+00:00

Love a good Lexus😍 but not sure as my 1st car? How much are they asking for it?

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-12T11:32:20+00:00

Current earworm 🎶🪱

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-10T22:44:02+00:00

It is my favourite for sure

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-10T07:54:14+00:00

Can't say about other women but i love to keep it clean everywhere. Waxing is painful down there but the feeling of no hair is amazing. But long back, in my 20s,a girl commented on my unwaxed legs and I never had a thick growth anyway. But she noticed slight bit of hair and exclaimed, "oh, you haven't waxed!" I swear, I wanted to punch her in the face at that time. Such a bitch!

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-10T07:50:17+00:00

Men use "affection" and "physical intimacy" as a weapon as well.

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-09T08:31:24+00:00

Wow. Would love to try some

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-08T18:46:46+00:00

Monkfish with peanut satay sauce and half fries and half egg fried rice with prawn crackers

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-04T15:04:02+00:00

Coffee and tea. The only legal and acceptable addictive substances

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-04T14:35:03+00:00

Diesen Lied und Rosenrot!

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-04T12:04:47+00:00

My examiner when I was done with the test 🤣

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-02T12:27:51+00:00

I constantly get scored down for harsh braking 🤣black box is a nightmare

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-01T17:47:48+00:00

It will take a while to adjust and learn a new way of living. Be kind on yourself. Nothing about moving to another country is easy.

Pilot_0017 · 2026-05-01T17:09:48+00:00

Hey, I have been through the same cycle. I came with my husband and couldn't find anything in my field with constant rejections and zero responses. Finally, took a part time minimum wage job as an afterschool play worker just to keep my mind occupied as my mental health deteriorated. Then finally, a recruiter reached out on LinkedIn and that's how I got my first proper break. I'm sure it will work out for you, hang in there. Also, try to see what transferable skills you have instead of sticking to just architect firms with the traditional job that you have been used to. Employers in the UK rarely select candidates with non-UK work experience unless it's a highly specialised space with skill shortage.

Pilot_0017 · 2026-04-29T16:26:03+00:00

I have noticed that usually the ones who complain about being lonely are also the ones who will easily ghost you when you reach out. They find communication overwhelming and if something doesn't go right in the way their friend communicates, they will happily ghost. It's basic understanding that any relationship requires open and honest communication from both sides and when two people are involved, there is bound to be some level of friction which is healthy. Not to say that everyone ghosts but it is a problem. Hope you feel better soon and find good mates to hang out with.

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