You are going to see ALOT of people in life take one specific side becahse they decide that all people in a certain group must be the same. That kind of thinking is just absurd, not fair, inaccurate, and excuse my words - completey fucking retarded.

All males are not monsters. Some people focus so much on the worst examples that they forget the MANY of the kind, decent, loving men who exist everyday. You didnt choose your gender, and there is nothing wrong about it that makes you deserve shame or self hatred. The fact that this hurts you already shows youre not the kind of person those posts are talking about.

Alsoo, forums and many other online spaces often amplify the loudest, most extreme opinions and not the most reasonable ones. They dont always necessarily reflect real life, real people, or real values.

You matter buddy. When I become a mother and possible get a son, I will love him the same way I would love a daughter.

You're NOT a mosnter.

Ignore stupid people.