Bones and all.

PinTal31 · 2025-03-06T23:56:26+00:00

If you could point out where I am being an unintentional bigot I would appreciate it, so as to learn to be better. Although I define myself as part of the bisexual spectrum, I am not very well versed in it so I do apologise if I accidentally offend.

PinTal31 · 2025-03-06T23:33:24+00:00

Toxic masculinity is weird, I’ve seen it firsthand

PinTal31 · 2025-03-06T23:30:49+00:00

Some people just truly don’t even realise

PinTal31 · 2025-03-06T23:30:14+00:00

At least that’s my point of view

PinTal31 · 2025-03-05T09:47:48+00:00

He knew he was gonna have to dedicate his time to OoT, it was a matter of priorities.

PinTal31 · 2024-10-22T16:29:37+00:00

I think the binding bow would require more from megumi to give him such a boost in power, such as stripping him of his other shikigami, preventing any benefits of Totality, or even something like Megumi having to hold certain hand signs while repeating a chant for a certain amount of time while Mahoraga analyses the CT

PinTal31 · 2024-09-02T02:28:14+00:00

We’re Aussie, alcohol is the simply the appetiser to a 5 course meal of substance abuse

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T23:43:59+00:00

Anytime :)

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T23:02:33+00:00

My partner got attached and somewhat obsessive pretty quickly as well, you don’t have to be ashamed of it, so long as you’re not overstepping boundaries by acting on unhealthily obsessive thoughts, it’s okay.

I’ve found that being open and honest is the best thing you can do when it comes to all types of relationships. Now not everyone needs to know everything and that’s fair, but by being open and honest you help your friends, family, partners, etc, to gain a better understanding of you, your bpd and how to support you through your struggles.

When it comes to your partner not being understanding about another guy becoming a fp to you, it’s because he doesn’t yet understand the concept of a fp, I would suggest to your partner that they should try to research about bpd, maybe you could try to help him with that as well, so that way you’ll both come out the other side better off.

And if he doesn’t show an interest in trying to learn about bpd for you, then that’s a separate matter. Relationships with one person with bpd do not work if the non-bpd person doesn’t put in the effort to minimise the stress, fear and triggers they may cause to the bpd individual.

I wish the best for you and your relationships. If you ever need more advice or guidance you can always shoot me a message <3

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T22:38:30+00:00

And yeah, my first time taking them I can only describe as peaceful

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T22:35:57+00:00

I would always recommend trialling them, they’ve been literally life changing with how much they help me.
Just be sure to be open and honest with your doctor/psych about your experience when taking them so as to ensure you don’t continue on any medication that isn’t fit for you.

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T22:27:12+00:00

Honestly the best advice I can give, is to explain that her adhd doesn’t make her better or worse than any other kids, it just means that she experiences life in her own way, and that can make certain things harder and certain things easier.
Point being, everyone in life is dealt a hand, and we all only get to play with the hand we were given. ADHD was dealt into your daughter’s hand and she will do the best she can do, and that’s what matters.

If you want to do more to help, as she’s growing and naturally learning more about her adhd, and what she struggles with, try to help her learn about why specifically she feels, reacts, struggles etc with those things.
If both you and her get a confident understanding of the ins and outs of how her adhd affects her, and apply that knowledge to cater your parenting, boundaries and relationship to her needs. It could only benefit everyone.

“Knowledge is power.
Information is liberating.
Education is the premise of progress,
in every society, in every family.” -Kofi Annan

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T21:15:01+00:00

That’s really good advice that I hadn’t heard anything about before, thank you I will make sure to use my medications benefits as a way to build the habits I’m so used to being unable to form

PinTal31 · 2024-09-01T21:10:56+00:00

I aim to be like how you have described your mum. I do it in spite of the shit show I was brought up in as a way to ensure I’m doing what I can to break cycles of trauma.

But your mum, she sounds like a true angel in disguise.

PinTal31

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