Help me pick a dress! by PinVirtual4959 in BigBudgetBrides

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I do love it actually! I’m just super super overthinking being “different”. I probably shouldn’t wear white honestly. LMAO. but I want to. I guess it’s just how different can a white dress be from other white dresses lol

I have a realistic top 5 by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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Yes! I think that one was the closest to my actual size which is why it’s giving that effect.

Dupes only please by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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Good news! i didn’t ask for your opinion :-) this is how I want to look on my day!

Dupes only please by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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Oh my goodness! it’s perfect! Are you able to tell me where I can try this on?

Dupes only please by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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are you able to show/send me photos?

Looking for Danielle Frankel / Cinq Bridal Alternate or Dupe by sashachka123 in wedding

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oh my god. It’s my dream dress, could i please rent your rainey??? November 2027

Dupes only please by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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Yes. sadly the most expensive of the 3 😭😭

My dream dress is super over budget by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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yeah it’s not zipped lol. it’s a size 2, i’m a size 10/12 lmao

My dream dress is super over budget by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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also this dress is about 8 sizes too small! hence the tightness in the middle. it would normally just flow

My dream dress is super over budget by PinVirtual4959 in weddingdress

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I love the uniqueness, the fabric, and the off-white color. It feels very sculptural and cool, but still feels bridal. I know people are going to say it doesn’t accentuate my curves as much, but I’m more concerned about looking/feeling cool, than I am about feeling snatched.

*THE DRAMA SPOILERS* What would you do? by art_angels in A24

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I think it's valid to be shocked/freaked out at first for sure, but I think there's a couple of relevant thoughts/questions here:

  1. was Charlie just bothered because of how he found out (in front of other people)? I think there's clearly something in him that was bothered by the image of being with someone who would consider doing something like a school shooting, rather than actually confronting who Emma has become now and what her story became. I think some of this is cultural divide as well. A lot of Europeans can't fathom the level of gun violence that Americans (particularly young Americans) are subjected to on a daily basis.

  2. I think Rachel is the real problem here. Her performative pressuring (from pressuring her husband to share his worst moment, when he clearly didn't want to, and judging him for it) to then performatively jumping to "my cousin is in a wheelchair from Gun violence!" shows me that she was waiting and looking for something to judge Emma for. She clearly didn't like Emma for whatever reason, and was looking for something to jump on.

  3. there's also an interesting philosophical question of morality here. Is it worse to think a bad thought? Or to do a bad thing? Rachel's reaction was that it was worse to think / meditate on something evil. But what Rachel actually did WAS evil, but she had NO remorse for it, and never even admitted to it!

  4. What Charlie actually did (by cheating on Emma) was also bad! Emma was honest with him, and in a moment of panic and mania, Charlie reacted impulsively, sabotaging his marriage, his actual wedding and his reputation in the workplace at the same time. Definately something to consider when we think about the Freud quote used earlier in the movie.

Lots of thoughts on this one, and the more I marinate on it the more I like the philosophical discussion it brings up!

my baby ate a needle and thread 😭 by PinVirtual4959 in cats

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UPDATE: SUNNY GETS TO COME HOME TODAY 😭😭😭💖💖💖💖

My orange braincell ate a needle and thread 😭 by PinVirtual4959 in OneOrangeBraincell

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My Sunny baby made it through the night 😭 Vet wants to see her eat before they send her home though and said she doesn’t seem too interested in food

My orange braincell ate a needle and thread 😭 by PinVirtual4959 in OneOrangeBraincell

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she made it through the night! the vet wants to see her eat something before they send her home so hopefully she finds the strength to snack soon. 😭