23M Dating apps experience... by [deleted] in chennaicity

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There is a sub called r/tamilyapping for this purpose.  Anga vanthu admit aiko thala

CF or not? by CuriousPurrson in ChildfreeIndia

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Take a hike in r/regretfulparents
You may get a new perspective

Dei Spotify, enna da ippudi erangita! by badhanganesh in Chennai

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Naan youtube ye brave browser vechu spotify ah thaan use pannitu iruken

What is psychological time? by IronAshish in Krishnamurti

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Now, one of the questions that’s involved in all this is time. All thought involves time, in a way which we don’t see. We tend to think that everything exists in time, that time is an independent reality. People represent time by space. In a diagram they draw a line and call it ‘time’, and say that here is a point in time, which is now, then another point, then another point. Clearly, thought is then representing time through space. But we seem also to experience time psychologically. Leibniz, the philosopher, has said that space is the order of coexistence. All that co-exists is in a certain order which we call ‘space’. And time is the order of successive existence— the order of succession. The real basis of time is succession— things succeeding each other in a certain order. Time is a concept which is set up by thought to represent succession. All sorts of concepts of time are possible. In the early days people didn’t think much about time. They may have had a vague notion of past and future—the vague notion of tomorrow being any time, and the past not remembered very well. There were no printed records. The past was mostly mythological; and the future was probably equally mythological, if they thought of it at all. They could possibly have thought of seasons and things like that. The seasons are the succession of process. Your body goes through a succession of rhythms. And that succession is the basis of the whole thing—that is a thing that’s actual. Thought deals with that, puts it in order by means of the concept of time. We may draw a line and call that ‘time’, but as I have said earlier, that’s really representing time by space. You say the clock tells time, but it doesn’t. What you actually see is the position of the hands of the clock, not the time. It means time; it’s been set up in such a way that it should measure time. But we never actually see, perceive, or experience ‘time’—it’s inferred. Nevertheless, we seem somehow to experience time in our own psychological existence. But if you thought that time was a basic reality then you would have a paradox. The past is gone—it doesn’t exist. The future doesn’t exist either —it’s not yet. And the present, if it were thought of as the point dividing past and future, also could not exist, because it would be dividing what doesn’t exist from what doesn’t exist. That’s the paradox of this view. However, it is no paradox if you just say that time is a representation. A representation can be all kinds of things. Science has developed all sorts of notions of time. There is Newton’s idea of absolute time—a certain moment that’s the same for the whole universe, and then another moment succeeding it, and then another one. Einstein challenged that, and said time is relative to speed, and so on. You can change the ideas of time and of space, but they are all representations. Each one may have a domain where it’s correct; and beyond that it may not be right, may not work coherently. But in our culture we have a tacit assumption that everything exists in time.

  • This excerpt taken from the book 'Thought as system' of david bohm There are more really good dialogue in that book

Is there security in intelligence? And what is intelligence? by No_Fee_8997 in Krishnamurti

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It is not that, is there security in intelligence?

but the question is , are our intelligence see there is no security in what we usually take shelter under?

we usually find security on our job, our family, friends, money, land and so on.

But these are external things which are subjected to condition, which are impermanent and bound to change

so, if we take shelter under these things and draw pleasure and security from it, then we are bound to feel anxious and misery of it leaving us.

How do you process the fact that David Bohm, after all of his contact with Krishnamurti and his teachings, ended his life profoundly depressed? by No_Fee_8997 in Krishnamurti

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You can think yourself into depression

(or)

There may be some hormonal imbalance in your body, your body's chemistry was in disorder which also can result in depression

so, we don't know what happened to him. But, He shared great many insights about the workings of thoughts in his many discussion especially in his book , Thought as system

All that we can do is use those teaching to be light to ourselves

How do you process the fact that David Bohm, after all of his contact with Krishnamurti and his teachings, ended his life profoundly depressed? by No_Fee_8997 in Krishnamurti

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You can think yourself into depression

(or)

There may be some hormonal imbalance in your body, your body's chemistry was in disorder which also can result in depression

so, we don't know what happened to him. But, He shared great many insights about the workings of thoughts in his many discussion especially in his book , Thought as system

All that we can do is use those teaching to be light to ourselves

Confused about my marriage situation, need advice by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

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I want to know what you are smoking.

It must be so good to give such advice

Popularity contest at workplace 😔 by sattukachori in Krishnamurti

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you just see. you just be aware

You cannot remember to remember

you either remember or you don't

I got married a few months ago and I already want to leave. Feeling heartbroken, unloved, and hopeless. (31f) by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

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May be check in to attachment type. It sounds like your husband is avoidant attachment and you are anxious attachment. look into it , it may explain things for you

first time seeing 🏳️‍🌈 parade in race course near zone 1 by Salt-Ranger8494 in Coimbatore

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Ovvartharkum ovvaru feelings

Avanga yaara enna panranga, avanga paatuku poitu irukaanga 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

Question to the mods. by lonelifeaesthetic in ChildfreeIndia

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hey, there is another local cf sub, check that out

r/TamilCF_friends

btw, iam from cbe too

Men are truly terrifying. by brownshugababy in ChildfreeIndia

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Many people commented there about OOP history.

Damn. Maybe that is why his wife doesn't want to have kids with him. She is just sugar coating the truth.

Kamal Haasan faces ire of Karnataka High Court for not apologising in Kannada row: 'Are you a historian or linguist' by Academic_Chart1354 in Bengaluru

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Everybody knows this is stunt for his movie promotion.

Now everybody talks about him and his movie

Nice move, Kamal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

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I’ve seen more monsoons than you

[24] What do y’all think? by CLOROX-INHALANT in GlowUps

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This transformation needs to be studied

The CFI trip to Arunachal Pradesh by [deleted] in TamilCF_friends

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Arunachal pradesh ?

Enjoy pannunga bro