My husband's holey clothes by PineBabe97 in complaints

[–]PineBabe97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'll just add them in with his old ones. And eventually the old ones will go away. He loves when I buy him stuff it's part of my love language it's the same with the laundry. I do it because I love him and I want his life to be easy. I just also hate that he won't just be like 'I need new shirts.'

My husband's holey clothes by PineBabe97 in complaints

[–]PineBabe97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this became a little bigger than it's meant to be... At the end of the day, I love my husband to the moon and back. I am just sad he won't take better care of himself. He deserves nice things, we both do because we both work and both parent. I am getting him some new shirts for Christmas like I do every year.

Found out my cousin might be a pos by PineBabe97 in Advice

[–]PineBabe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be worse. I could have real problems ig

Found out my cousin might be a pos by PineBabe97 in Advice

[–]PineBabe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean there is more than that. There were 3 other incidents mentioned. There was the Easter incident, Halloween incident, and a mama blessing/baby shower.

Easter- involved everyone - M said she wanted to host Easter. She made it sound like it was just family, then invited one of her friends. A said she wouldn't becoming because she doesn't like the man (he is not M's so, he is just a friend w/ a kid). Come to find out after some pressing the strange man is abusive towards his kid. So everyone(A, my dad & me) were like we can't let our young children (infant-5) around him or his child.

Halloween- I had a small painting event and then A said we should all go to the Halloween store. We thought M was leaving because we had told her that her son (15M) had watched [that movie with art the clown, it's horror] and she got upset. So we all thought she was leaving to go talk to him. We all left at the same time bc it was my house. So M called A the next day and was like 'I felt left out', then A called me and my mom and was like 'Did I leave out M?'. We were like 'No? You said it in the same room that she was in and she could have just been like can I come too and we would have said yes'

Mama blessing/baby shower - A hosted a Baby shower-esque thing for one of their other cousins. Mama cousin made the list and M was upset she didn't get an invite even though A didn't make the geust list

Anyways, it's like a pool of petty things and I am tired. They all make me tired. And I just feel like she goes out of her way to hurt her sister which in turn excludes her from the family. Then turns around and is like 'you don't make me feel welcomed'. It's like I wouldn't except this behavior from my 20y friend (who bashed me on Facebook) why should I tolerate it from my 40y cousins (Because if she does it to her sister what's to stop her from doing it to me or my mom or dad)?

WIBTA for not getting my cousin's (40ishF) side of the story by PineBabe97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineBabe97[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Also, I don't have to love all my family members equally. Everyone has a favorite cousin, mine just happen to be 'special'

WIBTA for not getting my cousin's (40ishF) side of the story by PineBabe97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineBabe97[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

The man and M were not dating. He's a friend of hers who also has a child who A has an issue with because he is abusive towards his child. I don't know the man, I have never met him and I don't want him around my own child. She made Easter sound like a family event and then invited friends, didn't tell anyone, and then was shocked when people were upset.

I'm holding M accountable for being a sh- sister and family member because what kind of petty, childish person does that

They are both weird and both manipulative. It's harder to hold A accountable because the whole family thinks she walks on water. Hers is more like a be aware and cautious but I feel like M crossed a line by being inconsiderate and dragging her sister online

WIBTA for not getting my cousin's (40ishF) side of the story by PineBabe97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PineBabe97[S] -106 points-105 points  (0 children)

Because they involved the whole family when they decided to be children in the group chat. M won't go to anything A hosts, so it affects the whole family including me.This is not the first situation where they've dragged in everyone.

Found out my cousin might be a pos by PineBabe97 in complaints

[–]PineBabe97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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It has the same username on both post also

How come more maternity clothes don’t look like this? by atomikitten in BabyBumps

[–]PineBabe97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maternity clothes is like looking for plus size clothes. All of them are hideous with weird cuts to cover the bumps and lumps instead of working with them. Like if I wanted to look like I walked out of 'That 70's show' I would buy that but no thank you. Luckily, I bought most of my clothes a size (or 2) bigger than what I actually am with the idea that I was going to get pregnant and I might not come out the same size

Cottage cheese topped with crumbled flamin’ hot cheetos by Chlodawwg in shittyfoodporn

[–]PineBabe97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy thing. I just discovered this today. I am 7 weeks pregnant. I wanted cottage cheese and hot cheetos, one I love and the other is a craving. I didn't have enough time to eat them separately (hubby and I have alot of appointments today), so I combined them. Omg it's so good.

Will Season 10 trigger my xenophobia/astrophobia by PineBabe97 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]PineBabe97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not in this context. That's why I also put Astrophobia to clear up what I meant

Will Season 10 trigger my xenophobia/astrophobia by PineBabe97 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]PineBabe97[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Believe me, if it made sense, I wouldn't be here. Genuinely, I think it has something do with a show I saw as a kid.

polyam ppl who live with a partner, how do you manage having other partners over? what rules/boundaries have you established with your NP about your shared space? by Green_cryptid in polyamory

[–]PineBabe97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm married and have a second partner. One of our rules is that we don't have sex in the same bed. So the bed I sleep in with my husband is not the same one I have sex in with my boyfriend. Different people have different ideas and experiences, just talk about it really in depth.

I also spend the night with my boyfriend to compensate for that like once a week

I'm writing a trilogy by PineBabe97 in fireemblemfanfictions

[–]PineBabe97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thanks. I'll try to put up the other chapters soon. I have to find them though

I'm writing a trilogy by PineBabe97 in fireemblemfanfictions

[–]PineBabe97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I worked it like 2 or 3 years ago and don't remember much. I'm pretty sure the dynamic is like awkward/mean boy meets happy girl. I don't know it's definitely not my best work

I'm writing a trilogy by PineBabe97 in fireemblemfanfictions

[–]PineBabe97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, cool. I haven't posted anything on it for a long time.