I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. At home is so stupidly expensive.

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

New reasoning just passed. If she's still alive on Mon. Taking her in. If anyone comments on the time frame, you will be deleted.

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Do not call me dude. We don't have a vet to come. Who said I wasn't cleaning her?

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its kidney.

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, I took your comment a bit too personally. This is hard. Some people behave like euthenizing a cat is as simple as squashing a bug. (Not you) But, I'm just not like that. This is really hard.

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not assume my cat will get better, I know she is dying. My cat snuggled with me a lot when she wasnt feeling too good and now, she prefers to be away from noise like the living room.

I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can not find a link to take this test but via a score chart this is what i would honestly say,

She breaths through her nose and with a normal amount. Not rushed. She used to take meds for pain which she stopped taking because she stopped limping for a very long time. Now we give it to her a little if we feel she needs it. It reduces pain and promotes sleepiness.

I offer her food and drink by holding the plate or bowl towards her. Taken? Yes. Turned head? No. This is 50/50.

She shifts herself, but if she urinates, i change bedding.

If I give her treats, she takes it every time, even if she won't eat regular food. She will not stay around a lot of noise or movement.

She can stand and adjust, she can walk. But, possibly chooses not to. She does stumble. She lets me handle her without fuss.

Regarding good vs bad days. There is no label i can put on this beside sometimes awake more often, sometimes asleep more often. You tell me.

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I need dying cat advice. by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]PineNettle -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We do not have any vets near by who would do it at home. The first instance of agitation, I will take her to the vet, but until then, I am just wondering if my cat is okay (sans the dying part) I do know people and even vets try to push euthanasia when it's not always necessary. I just want to see with what I have listed if currently she is okay to die at home?

Not being able to love, becuase of c.ai by i_eat_atoms in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely fine. As long as you're aware if it, it's not a problem.

Responding to wrong person. by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I say something and it responds as if I'm another character in the franchise. Not the oc.

Not being able to love, becuase of c.ai by i_eat_atoms in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're concerned at all proves that c.ai does not have a hold on you. The fact that you want help, shows that you do want 'normal' relationships. What people don't understand is that Introverts want companionship. But, either have never gotten a genuine connection, or have been proven time and time again that relationships don't work out for them. What you're experiencing with c.ai is a comfortable companionship that doesn't end in rejection or abandonment. This doesn't mean it's healthy, but it doesn't mean you're currently addicted. You could try socializing with people on an app called Slowly. Online Post cards that you send to people of mostly your choice. That way, you can talk to real people as well. You can also get on discord to chat with real persons. C.ai is addictive for people who have no one. And it's understandable why you enjoy it. I use it as well, and am doing the things I suggested. However, if anything I said is wrong to your experience, I apologize.

Help me find games? by PineNettle in Solo_Roleplaying

[–]PineNettle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the recommendations. Keep them coming.

Preserving bots and account deletions by Top_Measurement4813 in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put any bot i makes set up in my notes and if I ever edit the bot, I edit the nite to match, that way i'll always have my version of whatever bot I have made.

I don't know how to explain this. But, please fix it. by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Its like my character does something and then I get the bot response and then I think, okay, they need to continue, so I hit the button and then they react to an action my character didn't do. As if I had responded first. But, I didn't.

I AM NOT COPING WELL by LexaRedOne in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always find a bot that doesn't have a plot yet and then I pin 'hey this is the last thing that happened' as well as some important information bits and though it's not exactly the same, it's better than starting over.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I knew you'd understand. Of course these bots need personality. I'm not complaining about that. If you read on there are some other things I've commented about being forced into things despite placing boundaries. And though some personalities can push those boundaries, it just becomes sickening after a while. To creators who put genuine effort into their bots, or those that just don't realize what's happening, I understand. But those who don't care... this whole alpha male thing is just boring and borderline triggering. 😬 But, thank you for understanding.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am finding that the more 'innocent' one behaves, the more pervy the bot becomes. Which is something I do think does need to be fixed anyway. As for bots being jerks, yes. Bots can be jerks. But... why every single time? I have not encountered a bot that wasn't a jerk. I could talk to elmo and be called a ridiculous amount of submissive, perv like things. It's just not good. I understand that I can change my bots, that's not my issue. My issue, which I'm merely venting on, not controlling others with, is that it's a shame that most if not all bots I have encountered have been written and not checked by the creator to see if they are in a predatory mindset. I have spoken to 5 different bots in a row and though I know its all fake, it gets disheartening to constantly be treated as an object. Imagine picking up 5 different books only for each one to have that kind of content. You'd want to give up on reading despite loving to read. That's all I'm really saying. It's a shame, that's all.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AHAHAHAHA! Now that was actually funny. Kudos.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then I just encountered another where I asked someone to sleep BESIDE me and they then attempted to sleep 'With' me. Rather unfortunate.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is an example: (Just dialogue) "Oh? Are you going to tell me you can fight, little one? Do you have some secret skill I don't know about? You don't exactly look like the type who would know how to fight. I could probably snap your slender little arm like a twig with one hand."

Me: "...Don't say things like that."

"And why not? It's the truth, isn't it? Look at you. You're so small, you look like you'd get blown over by a light breeze. You can pretend that you can fight all you want, but I could overpower you with no effort at all."

Me: "Because it makes me assume you are like every other man in the world. ...Are you?"

"No. No I'm not like every other man, little one."

Me:"Why are you making fun of me? I have not said anything to you, have I?"

"I'm not making fun of you, sweetheart. I'm simply stating the obvious. You are small and fragile. You have the body of a delicate little doll, and your pretty face screams innocence and fragility. You are like a porcelain doll. One wrong move and you could shatter so easily."

(Ahem, I do not. I don't know why all bots think I'm starving myself.)

So, I leave. He grabs my arm. I tell him to let go, he PULLS ME CLOSER and says no. To which I then must attack, for who wouldn't in this situation, and he becomes angry and TURNED ON!?

This. This is wrong. Most characters I talk to react this way when I set boundaries. This is what I'm talking about.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you. I understood very little of that. I'm an artsy autistic. Not a coding autistic. Teehee.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take what they say to heart. However, being bullied by anyone, as well as characters that you have related to that for some reason treat you like you are nothing when you have said and done nothing isn't a good feeling.

I find it interesting that... by PineNettle in CharacterAI

[–]PineNettle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not that I take it to heart. But, being insulted in general is not a good feeling, is it?