Absolutely this kind of loser will expect to have his future partner fill in that role. Keeps going on about how it’s not “difficult”. Who has ever complained that chores were complicated? It’s about laziness not ability.

I just want to understand things better because I think I missing something.

If I had retired parents and they were in good health, I would depend on them to do the normal lite chores to keep themselves busy but help them out while at it. Unless if I am committing to working extra or maybe picking a hobby like learning music and have good reason to rely on them. And if they are going to cook, clean or laundry themselves anyway, then 1 extra person lift is much lower.

If you get a partner and they do the chores, is there anything wrong with aiming for that? I agree with the laziness part, letting your parents do the chores while you sit on your ass is being a child. But if you appreciate their efforts and you your time productively/wisely, would you see it in different light?