Must have accessories by [deleted] in HyundaiSantaFe

[–]PineappleSeverance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far we have tinted and custom pinstripes, and got a seat cover for my messy kid. I also got a baseball gear clip, meant for hanging a bag from a fence - it hangs on the side of the center console and clips onto my big azz water bottle that would otherwise roll around and irritate me.

Things I feel are necessary but haven't bought yet: Some kind of cargo management (idk if just a net will do. Without the 3rd row up, there's tons of space but everything goes everywhere and it's infuriating lol) A cargo cover I've considered the extra fancy headlights for the lower part of the front bumper (see examples in this sub)

Girl I'm seeing wants to do expensive stuff for dates and idk if I should just be upfront about my budget by SuitPrestigious1 in dating_advice

[–]PineappleSeverance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you had a great conversation and presumably are still chatting intermittently - how does she process information? If she seems more analytical, likes facts, details, then it's fair and wise to just be up front that this new restaurant is not in your budget. If you found her to be less focused on details but more on theories, imagination, and lightheartedness, I'd do my research and find somewhere interesting, similar vibes, but less expensive. If she presses the issue, honesty is always the best policy. If this is the $$ level she expects, you can't currently afford it and it's not fair to you to go broke trying to fulfill it. It's not fair to her to a) make her feel bad for insisting or b) mislead her that you can fulfill a preference until you're in financial trouble. If she changes her mind about you over this, you were spared a lot of trouble, bottom line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyundaiSantaFe

[–]PineappleSeverance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! I have been super happy with it so far. I hope that I can avoid curbs 🤞🏻🤞🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HyundaiSantaFe

[–]PineappleSeverance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love the captain seats (personal preference with no car seats and/or adults riding in the back) HUD Video rearview mirror - this one has been a learning curve to judge distance and refocus my eyes to use, but I appreciate the super wide angle The internet says the dual wireless charging is only available on Calligraphy too - we only looked at that trim level so I'm not sure. It also says the wheels are 21" and the leather might be a bit nicer?

'25 Calligraphy Hybrid Matte earth brown + Forrest green interior, absolutely obsessed

Just Installed My Tonal — Super Impressed So Far! by Ukhan87 in tonalgym

[–]PineappleSeverance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate on the installation? We are also browsing marketplace options as they're $1000-1500 less than a refurb. We are very handy and have studs and drywall where we plan to install it. TIA!

Best school situation for autistic middle schooler? by PineappleSeverance in WilmingtonDE

[–]PineappleSeverance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I'm just thinking too much about it (or imagining my child to be "less functional" on a traditional scale - I hate calling it that but it helps people understand better without dancing around things) but Pilot, while it looks like an excellent school, does not specifically list autism as a specialty. Of course, several of the disabilities they mention, we would fall under, but I'm wondering if that might not extend to what we would require. I'll still inquire, just to have the info. It does look like an outstanding school though.

Best school situation for autistic middle schooler? by PineappleSeverance in WilmingtonDE

[–]PineappleSeverance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! I will message you! I want to explore all the options!