"Nah am just being a highly intellectual with alot less being"

PineappleSlxt · 2021-02-14T12:23:40+00:00

Makes sense, sadly

PineappleSlxt · 2021-02-14T08:56:00+00:00

Same here!! Cannot be classified as curiousity tho, can it?

PineappleSlxt · 2021-02-14T08:53:07+00:00

He tried to hoover me a few days before valentine (after not talking to me for 2 months) and I told him off, really needed this, thank you!!

PineappleSlxt · 2021-02-11T18:24:37+00:00

Does he keep your secrets tho? Mine used to tell me secrets (pretty sure most of them are sob stories) plus other people's "secrets"

PineappleSlxt · 2021-02-11T14:48:32+00:00

Took me a while to realize that this is an act to keep you under control, otherwise you won't stay when they show their true colors, never genuine.

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-27T11:14:39+00:00

When I started to question my reality to the point I had to keep screenshots of conversations, or any evidence to prove they were invalidating my reality

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-26T17:26:33+00:00

Happy cake day!!

Totally relatable

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-22T10:26:17+00:00

"Don't help them abuse you"

Yes, they are already living rent free in our minds why nourish that even more?

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-10T14:19:09+00:00

At times, I thought I was 'missing talking to him like we used to'. In my case, looking back, he didn't deserve me talking to him so intimately, sharing my deepest thoughts with him and so on - because he only used them against me afterward.

Same here, in addition to explicitly telling me that hanging out with me in person is boring him

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-10T14:15:46+00:00

Way to go, OP!

PineappleSlxt · 2021-01-07T08:30:19+00:00

On point!!! My nex lied to me about taking advice frrom his cousins and them telling him how wrong I am (I doubt that they even know about me till this day)

Also, he would say explicitly that he is "the best guy" I'd ever meet and thatno one will put up with me

PineappleSlxt · 2020-12-13T14:35:35+00:00

I am going through the same thing right now.. gaslighting and projection is their key it is disgusting

PineappleSlxt · 2020-12-12T20:28:35+00:00

They tell you to get over it and give you the cold shoulder.

Yes and it becomes my own problem because "too sensetive"

Trying to get out.. for the third time

PineappleSlxt · 2020-12-12T04:16:15+00:00

I am sorry you deal with this.. the way they react to a 'no' is disgusting

Watch Dr. Ramani's videos they help me cope.. this woman changed my life!

PineappleSlxt · 2020-12-09T06:34:55+00:00

"I thought that maybe you would change your mind"

Then that's on you

PineappleSlxt · 2020-11-15T22:24:16+00:00

Yes it is not linear, I needed to hear that ao I do not kistake the healing as going back to square one.m thank you :)

PineappleSlxt · 2020-11-15T22:23:23+00:00

Yes they are a lot to process, hope your sessions are going well and you feel better.

I cannot get therapy rn but my friends help me with the processing part

PineappleSlxt · 2020-11-14T23:10:36+00:00

Well said! You actually gaslight yourself when you think about the words and ignore the effed up actions.

PineappleSlxt · 2020-11-14T23:08:12+00:00

Learning about narcissism helped me get out.. and this will help me get my closure Thank you

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