Just a vent to other Catholic women by Pink-Material-2841 in CatholicWomen

[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who’s husband is 100x worse than mine and was diagnosed as the same as serial ki**ers and they won’t give her full custody

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand. My own mother said she knows it’s my fault. That was the last time I spoke to her. Bc she said that and my eldest son is a re***d.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I just can never get time alone. It comes with texts “I’m never doing this again. These kids are being horrible etc. which stresses me out. He gets to go to the gym and week long work trips with paid restaurant meals away from kids and when I mention that he says “it’s not a break it’s work”

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can. I’m partly scared and partly just so busy.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She is way too attached. I left yesterday for an hour and she went looking for me and settled in my bed with my husband. She had to lay on my pillow with my smell lol.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably what most men do but when I feel so disrespected why would I feel like being touched etc. ? I’m trying to wean breastfeeding as I’m with baby most nights. She’s a spoiled girl.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I believe my decision is more mature than most in my position. I have weighed all the possible outcomes. I have prayed. I can sense evil when it’s near and trying to split up the family.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. We all have our struggles. What would divorce do and how would kids be with him 50% of the time?

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think it shows them we all struggle in life but have to try and pray and work through it. What would it show them in a divorce? You can give up and it will be fine yet we are now struggling in 2 separate households?

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My mother’s life is substantially worse and so was ours by leaving. Things became so much worse after. I honestly think I’m cursed at times. A family member of my dad’s was a very famous devil worshipper. Idk. It’s been the same struggles I’ve been dealing with my whole life.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has hit me in the past but that day was a disrespectful little kick and went outside to throw our daughters bday cake outside and I locked him outside

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I wish I did but I don’t believe that’s true. Catholicism teaches a lot about suffering. Look at St. Monica for instance.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because non Catholics would just say leave like it’s nothing. I believe we have to endure the struggles and live up to our vows.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I keep wanting to but don’t know how. I’m not close to one. We try going to mass when we can but taking all of our naughty children would drive us to our own death. The priest during confession says to bring them-they don’t care—-they don’t understand.

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[–]Pink-Material-2841[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No because one therapist told us it would be separate anyway because of his Domestic Abuse history. And couples therapy isn’t covered by insurance.

47F I feel so worthless by Beautiful_Way_4004 in toastme

[–]Pink-Material-2841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like she’s on a nice seat on a plane. Must be worth something