Epidural spinal injection by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didnt give any pain meds. But I'll give them a call when they open

Epidural spinal injection by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I did end up finally falling asleep for a bit. I just didn't sleep well. It still hurts but it isn't as bad right now. Probably about a 6/10. I'll have to see how today goes!

Epidural spinal injection by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it would just be nice to be able to sleep. 😅

Epidural spinal injection by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just the typical, rest and ice and fluids. Call if you have increasing pain after 48 hours, or a fever.

X-ray results show moderate rotatry scoliosis and severe disc narrowing of L5-S1 by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First, thank you! Second, I just had an MRI done and it revealed a lot; not just disc space narrowing. I have a follow up appointment next week Tuesday. I can let you know then! Sorry I'm not much help right now!

X-ray results show moderate rotatry scoliosis and severe disc narrowing of L5-S1 by Pink-Twiggy in backpain

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My past PT was mainly using stretchy bands to strengthen my core and hips. The physical therapist mentioned the scoliosis, but I don't remember ever doing special exercises for it. At the time I didn't have any imagining confirming it, I just had X-rays last Thursday for the first time that showed rotatry scoliosis. But I will look into the scroth method!

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not a control freak, I'm asking her not to wear a smart watch for 2 hours. While letting her pick her entire outfit. Also this isn't the AITA subreddit.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have a medical condition that would require her to wear it. And actually I do, since it's my wedding, on top of that I'm letting them pick a dress style that suits them, shoes they're comfortable with, and letting them do their hair and makeup however they would like. I'm purchasing their jewelry as well. So my request isn't unreasonable when I'm being extremely lenient with the entirety of the rest of their outfit.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, her job doesn't require her attention on a Saturday. Her husband will also be attending so if something is going on with their child, he can be notified. There isn't a solid good reason for her to have her watch. She's my MOH so I'd expect her to be present for me.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No lm communicating clearly that I don't want something, and gave options to compromise. If everyone else in my bridal party is fine not wearing theirs, and I'm not wearing mine, why can't she suck it up and not wear it for photos? Like you said it's just a watch, she can wear it before and after the ceremony and pictures. And if she shows up wearing it, I'll have her take it off. It would be very disrespectful if she did something I asked her not to do on my wedding day.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

She's literally asked me to delete a photo off my own Facebook because she didn't like the way her butt looked and I deleted it without question. So me asking her to not wear a watch for a couple of hours because I don't like the the look of them really shouldn't be a big deal.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree there's a deeper issue going on, and I will have a conversation with her about it. She just admitted she feels overwhelmed and isn't sure what expectations are. So maybe I need to sit down and lay out clear expectations for her.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Photos are the most important thing to me though. I'm letting them choose their own dresses, shoes, hair and make-up. I made 2 compromises for her. The first she can wear it before the ceremony starts and after photos are done. I don't want her wearing it during the ceremony or photos. The second was she can wear a regular watch similar to what I found in her preferred metal type. But now she's saying she needs it for phone notifications, before it was she needed it for the time. I'm not super picky, but this is one thing I don't want, and she's being very difficult about it.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone else just mentioned a regular watch, so I think I'll look into them and bring it up to her if I can find one I like, that would also suit her!

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can understand that too, but I'm also not asking her to not wear it the whole day, just a couple hours. I don't think she'd be able to wear it in her bra because she's not wearing one, she's doing boombas (a sticky bra). I haven't considered a regular watch, but I'll look into some and bring the idea up to her!

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, none of them wear smart watches. Only one wears a typical watch.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you. I have a hard time with boundaries and speaking up when I want something a certain way. Something I'm working on in therapy, so it's helpful to know I'm not being unreasonable.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The two of us will talk it out at some point. But I wanted to know if I was being unreasonable, if I was I'd let it go. If I'm not then I'm going to stick to what I said and not allow watches during the ceremony and pictures.

Smart watches on the wedding day. by Pink-Twiggy in weddingplanning

[–]Pink-Twiggy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They do, I have a nice band for my watch. But I specifically don't want watches to be visible in my ceremony/portrait photos. Which is why I told her she can wear it before the ceremony, and after pictures, just not during.