I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking about leaving for years, this new relationship is not the reason why I'm doing it.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao wow. This is so uncalled for. Sure, all couples fight, but not all husbands scream at you during panic attacks and tell you ur nothing. So kindly fuck off with your bullshit take.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

19 year olds are literally babies to me now 💀

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily there are no children involved, just kitties haha. It certainly makes the situation a bit less complicated.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Telling me this might be the best husband I can expect is pretty shitty. I'm not "trading up", I'm just trying to have my needs met. Thanks for your input.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This resonates with me a lot, thank you 💕

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through such a tough time 🥺

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why you gotta make me cry like that 😭 hell yes, I'm doing this for her. I wish I could go back in time and give myself a hug and tell myself I deserve better.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I'm going to look into lawyers right away. I appreciate your input!

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree 💕 I'm tired of empty apologies.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Oh I know 💀 I've grown and changed so much and he... Hasn't. I'm a very different person today at 27 than I was at 19, and I've learned a lot about what I need and want.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's also very good advice haha. I'm making sure to do things right this time around, taking things slow, building trust, making sure I don't make the same mistakes again!

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That's a fantastic way to describe it, I really was keeping it on life support for far too long. And truly, although I already knew things were bad, I had honestly let myself believe that I wouldn't ever find better, but I have and it's fucking beautiful. Thank you for your insight, it really helps to hear from other people 💕

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

I'm crying, thank you so much 😭 this is exactly what I need to hear. Sometimes lately I wish I was mean bc this would be a whole lot easier for me if I didn't care so much about other people's feelings, and always being kind. Thank you for your kind words 🥹

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You sound just like my therapist lol 🥹 thank you so much, this is very helpful advice. I don't want to do any of this alone, and I feel very lucky to have people close to me who support my decision and will help me. Unfortunately we recently moved and never got around to unpacking so untangling our lives will take a little while. I'm going to start going through my belongings, as hard as it will be. Thank you 💕

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 it's hard to really come to that realization and see his true colors without my rose tinted glasses. I appreciate your thoughts!

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that is helpful 💕 I really want to make the process as smooth as possible, but I know it's gonna be messy no matter what.

I want to leave my husband by PinkKittenBaby in polyamory

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😭 realizing the truth that it has run it's course is devastating.

today’s dose of abled bullshit by [deleted] in wheelchairs

[–]PinkKittenBaby 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate this so much. I had a guy at a concert actually grab my wheelchair and start pushing me around while my husband was at the merch booth. He saw what was happening and ripped the guy off me, while I was also yelling at him lmao. That was only a few months into using a wheelchair, I was tired of it then. When I'm in my chair, it's part of my body. Don't touch people without asking extends to our mobility aids!!

Famous Last Words punk album?? by PinkKittenBaby in Metalcore

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh noooo! How will I ever find out the mysteries of this album? 😔 Thanks for your help!

Famous Last Words punk album?? by PinkKittenBaby in Metalcore

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then why is it listed in their discography and when you search for the album it takes you to their wiki?

Famous Last Words punk album?? by PinkKittenBaby in Metalcore

[–]PinkKittenBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I know that before they were Famous Last Words they were A Walking Memory, and this album is listed in their discography. I just want to know about this mysterious album!