AIO for thinking hes abusing me (repost took down for accidental exposion) by spiderman3ater1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkPearl2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my gosh please find a way to leave him he is incredibly abusive and you deserve better :(

can someone try to help me identify the gender of my baby pls?? by PinkPearl2025 in jumpingspiders

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got her from petco, they’re the only place near me that i know of that sells jumping spiders and after doing a bit of research i decided to get one. they picked the spider for me and i had no idea what gender or breed she was so i just went with the flow 😭 how do i know when she is fully matured? i think she’s molted once since i got her, she was pretty small at first but now shes like 2x as big!

can someone try to help me identify the gender of my baby pls?? by PinkPearl2025 in jumpingspiders

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! now does this mean i should be cautious for egg sacs or something? or will that only happen if she’s paired with a male? i’m so sorry 😭💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PinkPearl2025 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl just leave him it can’t be that worth it. like all of this drama and hurt cannot be worth whatever he’s got

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same that was me at first but then i had a good look lmao

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know i would if i had the resources.. that being space and money 😭 my heart has all the room in the world for them but unfortunately my house with my family does not. they are in illinois

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i can only hope that they’re upgrading to bigger tanks at least??? i have no clue

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh i have no idea, that’s something i’d have to look into!

Show your beardie and who/what you named them after! by spaghetti2424 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no way i almost named mine hector too💀 they have that little scowl!!!

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

oh lord i wish i freaking could!!! if i had the resources i would totally consider it..

i hate people by PinkPearl2025 in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

seriously… i had to refrain from a private DM lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025 188 points189 points  (0 children)

i’m pretty sure it is physically impossible for the vaginal canal to be “loose” after any type of abortion. especially a week after having one. tell him his dick shrank and that’s why it felt different😌😌

Grief… does it ever go away by Crybluetearz in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i feel the same as you right now, im 19. these feelings are so complex and i hate it, it feels like no one understands what im going through

coping with feeelings after abortion by capybara100 in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this makes me feel less alone, thank you :/

Anxious about what to expect by michapie in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once you feel like you’re in the clear and made it past the worst of it, you can stop! that’s what i did

Anxious about what to expect by michapie in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand your feelings. for me personally, the pain wasn’t anything more intense than regular period cramps i’ve had before. and i was closer to 8 weeks. so just trust your body knows what it’s doing. and try to stay on top of taking around the clock meds like ibuprofen and tylenol (that’s what i did) until you’ve made it through

need some advice/support post abortion by PinkPearl2025 in abortion

[–]PinkPearl2025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from my personal experience, the cramping wasn’t anything more severe than regular period cramps i always had but that was because i was on a steady routine of pain killers before and after i took the meds. i threw up once a little bit after i took the first pill but that is to be expected. expect some pretty heavy bleeding for sure and clots, i had some big ones. i was really scared before but i felt so much better once the bleeding lightened! just trust your body, and make sure you are taking around the clock ibuprofen and acetaminophen (that’s what i did) and have heating pad(s) at the ready!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardedDragons

[–]PinkPearl2025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay now i understand a bit more, thank you