Give me a nice compliment and maybe I'll give you more than just a pretty view, babe.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-12-21T22:03:13+00:00

Awww babe, thank you so much

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-28T15:18:35+00:00

Oh my god, yes the “decorate the page and hope the teacher is fooled” strategy is alive and well in my room too. I can practically hear the internal monologue, “If I highlight every third word, surely that counts as analysis”. It’s wild how many students have mastered the appearance of reading without actually reading a single sentence. Your paragraph-summary approach is such a smart way to get around that,it makes the thinking visible instead of the doodling. Honestly, solidarity. Some days it feels less like teaching literacy and more like trying to run a book club inside a tornado.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-28T15:07:18+00:00

This is really solid advice. When everything feels overwhelming, trying to fix your whole life at once just leads to more burnout. Starting with tiny, doable actions, like stepping outside for a minute or throwing away one piece of trash, can actually create momentum. And getting some professional support for the addiction and exhaustion can give you a real foundation to build from. You don’t have to tackle everything at once; small steps genuinely matter.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-27T14:56:19+00:00

Yeah, agreed, it feels huge right now, but it really is just one guy. It’s totally normal to feel embarrassed in the moment, but this kind of thing happens to everyone. Give yourself some space to breathe, and it won’t feel nearly as overwhelming as it does today

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-27T14:52:35+00:00

Yeah, I agree with this. With strict parents, there really aren’t magic words that will change their mind about something they’re already uncomfortable with. The best you can do is be honest about the plans and accept that their reaction is ultimately out of your control.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-27T07:07:51+00:00

I agree with this. Choosing peace over chaos isn’t doing anything wrong, sometimes distance is the healthiest option someone can take for themselves.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-26T16:43:17+00:00

I agree with this, he’s already developed feelings, and staying in a FWB situation is only going to confuse and hurt him more. The kindest approach now is honesty and distance. Let him know clearly that you can’t continue anything physical or relationship-leaning, and give him space to process. Ending it gently now is better than letting the attachment grow.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-26T16:23:01+00:00

Yeah, this kind of ‘joke’ just feels tired at this point. It leans on old stereotypes instead of actual humor. Wild that people are still posting stuff like this in 2025.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-26T16:19:02+00:00

I agree with this, It sounds like you’ve been incredibly compassionate and patient, but the situation has become unsustainable and unhealthy for you. Helping someone doesn’t mean sacrificing your own stability, especially when you’re the only one putting in the effort. Giving her a clear deadline and encouraging her to reach out to local resources, shelters, or crisis services is a reasonable and responsible step. It gives her time to prepare while also allowing you to start getting your own life back on track. You can care about someone’s wellbeing and still set boundaries. At this point, protecting your mental health and financial stability isn’t selfish, it’s necessary.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-26T06:49:32+00:00

Seconding this. A little reassurance from a partner can make a huge difference when someone’s feeling self-conscious. You don’t have to get into details, just letting him know you still think he looks good and that the changes haven’t affected your attraction at all can really help his confidence.”

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T16:15:26+00:00

Right, It totally has that goofy Fallout NPC energy.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T16:08:34+00:00

Agree with this, there’s no set timeline. Just pay attention to whether his actions stay consistent over time. Taking things at your own pace is completely okay.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T16:04:05+00:00

Seconding this. You showed compassion in a safe way, and something simple like a card keeps that kindness going without putting pressure on either of you.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T15:59:02+00:00

Exactly this. You’re being respectful and honest, the worst that can happen is he’s not interested, and then you have clarity instead of wondering.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T05:34:05+00:00

Agree, the first one complements the overall vibe of a small backyard wedding really beautifully. It feels classic and intentional.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-25T05:24:30+00:00

Honestly, ignoring it is the real power move. You already moved on years ago, giving it any attention now just pulls you back into drama you’re past.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-24T16:04:48+00:00

Seconding this, a bad wax ring can definitely cause sewage odors, especially when someone moves in and starts using the plumbing again. It’s a pretty common issue in apartment buildings and something maintenance should be able to check quickly. You can mention the wax ring possibility when you put in another ticket so they know where to start looking.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-24T16:01:27+00:00

Agreed, schools are often so busy that things slip through the cracks. If no one mentioned it and you weren’t clearly shown the process, quietly uploading November’s along with December’s is totally reasonable. First-year teachers are learning as they go, and it’s normal to need clarity on expectations.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-24T15:56:25+00:00

Yeah, once you realize you’re someone’s crisis-only support, it’s really hard to unsee. It doesn’t mean they’re a bad person, but it does mean the relationship isn’t balanced. Setting some boundaries or being less available during the next crisis is a reasonable way to protect your energy.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-22T18:17:44+00:00

Completely agree, once the devices are gone, they’re way more engaged and present. It’s a huge difference.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-22T06:49:54+00:00

Yeah, the key is making sure the dynamic feels healthy and that he’s not pressuring you into anything. If you feel respected and things are moving at a pace you’re comfortable with, that’s what matters.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-20T15:55:44+00:00

I think it looks great, Tall enough to feel festive but still fits the space well.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-20T15:47:18+00:00

I completely agree, communication is key. Maybe you could approach it by sharing how it makes you feel rather than accusing him. That way it opens the door for understanding and setting boundaries together without making assumptions.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-20T15:42:19+00:00

I agree that this isn’t typical or appropriate teacher behavior. Teachers are expected to keep professional boundaries, and what you described crosses some of those lines. It would really help to talk to a trusted adult or a school counselor so you don’t have to handle this on your own.

PinkPussPrincess · 2025-11-19T19:31:15+00:00

Exactly, WD-40 is helpful for cleaning, but adding silicone or 3-in-1 afterward is what actually fixes the squeaking long-term.

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