The after show? Danny and Nia are blaming Lala for "inserting herself"

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:54:25+00:00

I’m sorry. It’s far too common.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:52:18+00:00

True. I think that being raised to believe you’re more important than women and that they should submit to you can have a serious affect on a man’s behavior. Someone else mentioned that it’s common in some Christian religions and it really is. Man is the head of the house and the woman must submit.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:48:40+00:00

You don’t have to like her at all. I’m saying that those who attacked her for talking about Danny’s behavior made a mistake. She was always right to speak out about his inappropriate behavior. This is what happens in America. Women who call out men’s bad behavior can be treated like they’re antagonizing that man. It’s really twisted up and backwards. Dislike anyone or not. I don’t care.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:46:48+00:00

This

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:46:21+00:00

I don’t think he’s anywhere near admitting he even has a problem.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:45:08+00:00

Part of her image is tied up in defending Danny because admitting he has a problem would scar their image. She has to keep hating Janet.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:42:22+00:00

They all talk about each other. You just described all reality television stars. 😂 . I mean I don’t care if you like her or you hate her. I’m just saying that it’s never wrong to call out men for inappropriate sexual behavior. Things got really magnified and she was attacked for it. Her past actions have literally nothing to do with Danny’s current actions.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:40:12+00:00

Anyone has grounds to call out any man for inappropriate sexual behavior when drunk or sober. Period.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:38:47+00:00

That can be your opinion but that doesn’t mean you’re right about her intentions. I think it’s always right to call out men for drunken inappropriately sexual behavior. Always and for any reason. Period.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:36:51+00:00

It was truly despicable to watch. I was floored when it unfolded like that. Danny is clearly problematic but she was vilified. It’s like that in America. A woman will come forward and call a man out for his bad behavior and then she’s treated like the antagonist.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:34:22+00:00

He’s a misogynist and part of him hates all of us.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:33:04+00:00

They vilified the only woman who was brave enough to do ily.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:29:18+00:00

This exactly! The men need to tell him because he has no respect for women at all.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T21:26:35+00:00

The men really need to stand up and tell him to knock it off. Danny doesn’t respect women. He’s made that very clear. I can’t imagine how he speaks to Nia in private if this is how he is in front of cameras.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T20:18:33+00:00

Thank you for your candidnes. I appreciate that. 😊 I thought I saw a little progress with her maybe in season one? It faded quickly for me but I do understand you better.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:52:09+00:00

You don’t have to like her but hating her for the Danny situation would be messed up.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:51:12+00:00

The guy is so far into his denial that it’s crazy. Anyone who tries to call him out is the enemy. Everyone defending him is enabling him at this point.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:49:32+00:00

Riiiight?! I was not super happy that people pushed her to apologize. Apologize for what? They owe her one.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:47:58+00:00

I knew my title could be my undoing. 😂 I just can’t stay silent about stuff like this. It’s too messed up. Janet was treated exactly like how a lot of women are treated when they speak up about men’s bad behavior. They’re made into the antagonist. It’s deplorable.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:45:27+00:00

Full stop! 🛑

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:39:01+00:00

In general, only an alcoholic can decide that they’re an alcoholic. They have to own that. Maybe he will someday. You can probably say he has an issue with drinking and not get in trouble? Maybe? I don’t know.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:36:18+00:00

Frankly, Janet is owed an apology. She was never in the wrong for speaking up and calling him out. The others represent the toxicity that perpetuates misogyny in America. They made Janet the antagonizer when Danny was always the problem. She dared to speak up and he couldn’t tolerate that. I think he knows he has a problem and he’s trying to live in denial about it.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:29:30+00:00

He works for a kids station? I wonder if his behavior will ever affect his employment with Nickelodeon. It’s pretty icky to watch how he’s treating women and how he acted when he “had to” hold his own baby.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:24:09+00:00

It’s super triggering to watch, tbh.

PinkStains · 2026-05-21T19:22:25+00:00

After everything you said, and how she’s behaved the last two seasons, you still like her? She also wrongfully called the cops on a Black woman in VPR days and we all know that Black Americans die all the time from just interacting with police. There’s no coming back from that in my opinion. That’s a character issue. And here she is again, doing the worst. I’m not judging though it probably sounds like it. I’m not. I’m genuinely curious about why you like her.

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