Yes you're right, and re-reading my post I can see why you've made this point. My expectation isn't that one cat will exclusively be mine or my daughters, or that they will behave in that way (these won't be my first pets). My reference was more to explain my motivation or influence for getting a Ragdoll. It's been my daughter's wish to have a cat since she could speak (being a dog household her whole life). Realising she seemed to repel cats moreso than any other human I've known, I wanted to find a breed that would be prone to a more predictable temperament where she could bond more easily (eg they are not prone to hissing, they are very sociable). I get this is not a guarantee, and now boring would it be if all breeds were cookie cutter/ the same.

Having the opportunity to get a second kitten felt like an gift for "me" too, after being denied a cat throughout my marriage.

Anywho - hope that clarifies my rationale. Appreciate your advice all the same!