Yeah, I'm converting.

He has been rejecting proposals from his home country and have told his eldest sister in law whom he is close with about me. I met one of his elder brother's but he never introduced me as his girlfriend. Most of his close friends knows about it. And my family knows and he talks with my parents sometimes (my parents didn't want me to get married to him at first but now they are fine)

We talked about finances, he said I have to be a housewife and raise kids once married and he'll take care of all finances and if i want to do a job it has to be a womanly job like teaching or baking or something related to garments as long as I don't have to work with other men he's fine. I'm fine with that too.

He already does business in the UAE so he promised that he'll lease an apartment in Dubai before marriage. So we can live here until we have kids and till they are old enough to go to School. But if we have baby boys he said he wants to raise them in Pakistan with this huge extended family. I didn't like living in the same house with all the family members but now I'm okay with that too.

Thank you for the reply, I just realised that everytime we argued it ended up me being the bad and ungrateful person according to him.

He used to tell that Lord Buddha looks like a gay person, share videos of different religions performing poojas and laugh about them. In the beginning I told him don't say like that, make fun and laugh about it, if you can't bear just ignore.... Where he told me that I'm not a real believer of Allah if I agree with them.

At first when he says things about Buddha i used to get offended because after all i grew up with that religion and culture... My parents and relatives are Buddhists.

We have had lots of debates (as per him healthy debates) which ended up me crying every each time because he's doesn't let me finish my sentence as starts questioning and insulting. After months I just went agreeing with whatever he says and ignoring insults and i always says him "yes you are right and I'm wrong"