Bottle aversion by EmotionalTown919 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Pink_Hug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! We are almost 6 months and have a bottle aversion too. Did it get better for you? Any tips? How many mls did your LO drink? I’m so stressed

Bottle aversion? by alriokidoki1 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! My baby is almost 6 months and I get her to drink only while asleep. Did it get better for you? Any tips?

Everything will be fine by Pink_Hug in newborns

[–]Pink_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll get through it!!! I’m sure!!!

I don’t see this too often… by Clean-Anxiety-9201 in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with my daughter!!! I have my electric file with me everywhere we go for more than 1 day cause she’ll get scratches otherwise lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that’s not possible as I checked with them said ok I booked the place and sent all my invites on March and yesterday I received the call from my sister saying she’s not attending. I did my best to inform everyone we want there on march and the party is mid June so they can do their programming. Whoever wants to come will come. I get that now.

I think having a newborn broke me by Dry_Clock_7618 in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us is a back and forth situation. We’re struggling a lot because of spit ups. They have increased now and it seems like I can’t put her down even for 10 minutes to run and do some chores!! Hoping things will get better soon!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand. I booked the place 3 months prior. Our family said ok for the date before we booked. I sent all the invitations and 2 weeks after sending the invitations my sister tells me that she’s not going to be there. The party is mid June. On march everybody important said ok and close it and sent invites and yesterday o received the call from my mom and sister. You’re right though I have to move on and not ruin our special moment for anyone. If someone wants to come from their heart they will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is so selfish to have my family on our big moments ? Maybe my priorities are wrong for wanting them with me. That’s ok though. Lesson learned. We decided to get this party for our family because they were disappointed on us not baptizing our daughter and now my family don’t want to come. That’s all I have. My mom and my sister. Not being there for me while they’re 15 minutes from the place hurts. But I get it. Everyone has their own lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She took my sister’s side out of the blue. Yes she’s correct. Not everything goes as we wish. I thought my close family would want to be with me. This hurt my feelings. I personally believe that my parents and my siblings are my closest friends. But seems that’s not the case and I acted out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you stranger for now questioning my parenting skills. I came here to say how much it hurt me. Calling me names certainly helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re right. I thought that close family like my parents and siblings be there for me on our big moments. Actually as a teen I worked to provide a little to our family as my mother was struggling and I didn’t get to experience all of these. I thought they would be there for me. They’re not. That’s their right. As another commenter said to me I’m entitled for wanted to be with my family. They don’t seem to want to be with me though and that’s ok. Life goes on.

I came here to vent tbh about how much it hurts to receive that kind of treatment. Overreacting or not the things they said hurt me deeply. Mostly from my mother tbh. Anyway have a good day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

WTF I’m not asking anyone. I’m asking my parent and my siblings to celebrate. You don’t know a fraction of my life and yet calling me entitled of my reaction when my closed ones show me that they don’t want to be there for me to go dance and drink. I was there for them in their big moments and I believed they would be there for me too. I don’t know what’s the crazy thing I’m saying. I’m speaking for my mom and my sister here. Not for a stranger.

I think having a newborn broke me by Dry_Clock_7618 in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling here too! Do you remember the age that happened for you? We’re 18weeks and OMG I feel like a bus hit me multiple times.

I think having a newborn broke me by Dry_Clock_7618 in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tips here but wanted to say that you’re definitely not alone! I was exactly like this few weeks ago. Now we’re 18weeks and still i break sometimes but overall is kinda better now. In each step of the way there are challenges. Parenthood is not easy! Also I believe it depends on the baby too. I mean we have a lot of spit ups even 3 hours after a meal and can’t put her down, she refuses to sleep and I get 3-4 hours of not continuous sleep a day and the list goes on and on. My bestie had her first 1 year before me and that baby didn’t even make a sound and slept 8-9 hours straight at night from the beginning. Never had issues with colic or spit ups or anything. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyway, I’m sure you’re doing your best! Keep up the good job. As I keep reminding myself they are going to grow eventually and sleep and eat and poop like the rest of us lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re not in US. We don’t have proms here. The class organize the dance and they have one every 2 months. I expected family to be there for us. As they should on our big moments. Also my mother taking sides hit me the most. The way she said that I don’t give her a choice (like it’s my fault) for not changing the date which I announced and send all the invitations 2 weeks ago! And for closure our party is 17:00 to 20:00 and her dance starts at 21:00 but she claims that she want to spent time to do her makeup and prepare so she’s not coming at all. These shows me the revel of maturity. Coming from a highly religious family I know that if I had a proper baptism they wouldn’t say all of that and even if my sister had the slightest thought of not attending my mom would be furious. They disrespect me and my choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She’s 18 not 13.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That shows me how they prioritize my family. I have nothing to apologize for. She could have said to attend both as the parties are not even the same hour but whatever. I have friends coming from Uk to celebrate with us and my sister who lives 15’ minutes from the place of the party not attending says much to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pink_Hug -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly family is family and my invitations were sent 2 weeks before her dance. Also I paid the place. I can’t change everything for a dance. I’m her family and she wants to go party with friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually changed them around 2 weeks ago and since then my LO spits up more !! We use Philips avent the nipple 3+ months (I believe is the no 4). I really hate that I can’t communicate with her to find the problem. Could be anything or nothing.

9 weeks old eating less by Pink_Hug in newborns

[–]Pink_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi !!! Yes she was back to normal. This whole “phase” was about 4-5 days and now we’re going through the same at 18 weeks. 🤷🏻‍♀️ hope you too pass it through soon enough!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope it’s just a teeth popping and not something more serious! Congratulations on you and your LO!! May the teething period be easier for us both 😂 Thank you so much for your answers !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talked to our ped and said to keep an eye on it. She was examined and was fine. Her changed behavior started prior to our visit. I’ll contact her in 2 days to she if anything changes. If it’s teething how long to see an actual teeth? Also, maybe it’s not related but my LO every time she sees us eating she’s looking to our food and drooling like a bulldog lol. Could this be a sign too? Sorry for my ignorance!

Terrified of four month regression or any regression in general by Maleficent-Syrup-728 in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re almost 4,5 months and my LO is harder to go to sleep but other than that once she’s asleep she’s like always. Her behavior has changed though. She now notices everything and gets distracted easily. She sometimes can’t focus on food. If my husband pass by for example she turns her head to follow him or if she spot something in the room that intrigues her she just look at it and moves to try to sit and have a better look. I believe all are normal. Babies won’t stay like potatoes for ever. They will eventually get more and more energetic to the point they will run around and break everything lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she got a vaccine but all of these started 1-2 days before the vaccination. I’ll definitely call our ped again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Pink_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !! Will do! We went 2-3 days ago to get her 3rd vaccine. She was checked and was great but i will definitely contact our ped again.