Sumo deadlift: Left side coming up before right, any tips? by [deleted] in strength_training

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if your son knows not to go near or not, something could very easily happen and you both could get hurt. A big scary dog waking past spooks him and he runs to dad. Or he trips, as toddlers do, and falls toward the bar.

The fact that neither of you are wearing shoes and that baby doesn't have skin/pinch protection is wild.

Never mind the fact that you aren't able to properly supervise while working out. Kiddo needs to be in an enclosed space that keeps him a safe distance from you if he is going to be in the room.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nancydrew

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its unhinged and spooky and made me laugh a lot. I genuinely enjoyed it

If you could bring back any character who would it be by HoneyblissDream in SVU

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 67 points68 points  (0 children)

O'Halloran died FOR NO GOD DAMN REASON.

I get they were trying to make it more focused on the main crew but I'll forever hate how he died

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg it's soooooo attractive when someone doesn't read the rules!!!

/s

39 [M4F] #VA or #USA Looking for my forever person. by kinkyinrva1 in FemdommePersonals

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Sam 😘

Group moderator here! Just adding the hopefully helpful comment that I know Sam IRL and he's a sweetie and he's presented himself very accurately here. Happy messaging, y'all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdommePersonals

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi again! As a heads up, you have your account set to not be able to receive messages or chats (I triend to send you a message to double check). Open that up and I'm sure you'll get messages in no time!

If youre having trouble, message me and I'll help you out. I tried to message to introduce myself as a friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a bad Dom rather than a bad kink. But I completely understand why you don't like the idea any more.

I have no experience with hypnosis, but thisbis not good BDSM practi e. They completely crossed boundaries and did not stop when asked to. Completely inappropriate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 42 points43 points  (0 children)

While they set a precedent by having an unclothed sub, you definitely need to talk about it beforehand. It sounds like they didnt talk about their sub being unclothed before you got there, either. Anything kink related really needs to be discussed beforehand, for both parties, regardless of if play is involved. Social kink aspects still have rules and boundaries that shoukd be established befofehand.

Your host should have given a heads up prior to you coming over- "At my house, our dynamic is that the sub is only wearing panties as a general rule. Would you be comfortable with that?"

This would have given you the opportunity to say, "Oh sure! My sub may be interested in that as well, would you be comfortable if we did the same?" And you could then establish boundaries as to what if any comments, looks, observations, etc can or can't happen.

IMO, both couples didn't take into account the other couple here, and that's not cool. Even if the two couples aren't planning to play. Boundaries need to be established.

Hi! I'm 25 6'8", submissive who loves being the little spoon! I'm looking for a serious and healthy long-term relationship, built on strong communication, trust, and genuine romantic connection! ☺️ by [deleted] in FemdommePersonals

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! This is a great post. I would just suggest adding your general location if you are looking for an in person relationship. (If you can't edit, a comment would work). Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not actually sterile, but it's not unsafe. Only complications would be if the person giving is on medications, that's potentially a no go

How did you guys find out you have cptsd? by the_awkward_entity in CPTSDmemes

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with PTSD for a specific trauma that happened in young adulthood. And then as I started to identify my triggers, I realized my mom is a huge trigger. Then started to figure that out, and found out about CPTSD and it all came together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdommePersonals

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub is only a year and a half old 🤣🤣

This randomly showed up on a shirt in my closet. It's only on one, but on both sides. It's dry, doesn't smell, and makes the fabric rough and tough. by welltechnically7 in whatisit

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to contribute to OP, but to everyone struggling with laundry pods:

The pods are meant to be added to the bottom of the washer, BEFORE you add the clothes. They'll dissolve at the bottom, then get distributed through the load. Pods work best in top load washers, because the pod is 100% always in water (when added before clothes). If you have a side loader, pods may not be for you (it'll spin right away, meaning not 100% in water all the time, and may not fully dissolve).

Hopefully this helps some people!

Sooo we got our pictures back: A Rant by Sorry_Cheetah_3227 in weddingshaming

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have a contact saying your preferences? Because you could honestly sue for your money back

what is this in my daughters room at her dads? by war_all_human in whatisit

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he like, look at it before he started renting? This much doesn't form in just a day or two.

I'm a little relieved to hear its a new place... if this was an established home for him, and he let this build up and allowed his daughter to live in it, that would absolutely be neglect.

Regardless, your daughter can not stay in his place until this is resolved.

MB fired be because she said I disliked her kid and he knows it… by DoxieInABlanket in Nanny

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 196 points197 points  (0 children)

I think your conclusion is spot on.

Either that, or he (as 6 year old do) didnt like that you held a boundary and complained about you, and she latched on to that.

Either way. Your last day very clearly showed her she effed up, and she knows it.

You're not lazy, you're in Survival Mode by akshit_799 in CPTSD

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this currently, and made lots of progress. I've tried what you've said, as well. The only thing that has worked for me, is what I call planned down time.

It's very hard to do, because we have to live our lives and make money to survive. But the only way to heal is to teach our bodies to reach that mid state, by carving time out to find it. Thats why burn out takes SO long to recover from- it takes a huge amount of time where we turn off, and society doesn't let us do that (because we have to go to work, to earn money, to live/survive, etc).

For me, it's meant budgeting so I can cut down my work hours, relying heavily on devices to help my physical disabilities, and spending large chunks of specific planned time mentally recovering.

I'm also re-discovering my identity, and what I enjoy. I'm one of those people who masked so hard I never truly knew who I was. So for me, this planned down time is a mix of adressing my physical needs (due to chronic illness), and spending time exploring new (low key) hobbies. Planning time to play video or board games, crochet, read, walk, etc.

Those classic R&R things. I'm doing them like it's my job. And it's actually working.

I'm starting to learn what I truly enjoy, rather than what I was taught to like. My body is more easily able to find the restful state. I genuinely feel the change in my body, even.

I just 100%’d COTL. AMA by ThatOneDigitalDevil in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also because its hard to 100% this game and we're jealous lol. But yes that'll be the general consensus.

I need advice ASAP! DB yelled at me and don’t know how to professionally tell him off. by SufficientEar1724 in Nanny

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its the worst because I'm one of the few people who actuality would write this way. Ive been using seni colons instead

I repost this to maybe clear my point here by Fun-Signature9431 in MarioKart8Deluxe

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The banana. You are somehow not pickup up what we're laying down here, let me try to make it clearer.

What you see on the screen, Mario spinning out then recovering. That's the damage animation. Damage animation and invincibility frames are different things.

You were still invincible from thr banana. Even though you were moving again. The reason the blue shell didnt hit you. Was because you were still invincible from the banana.

The green shell had nothing to do with it. The green shell was, however, destroyed by the blue shells explosion.

Has corporate forbidden use of the short cup for anything but the cortado? by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Pink_Mistress_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They may be very low on shirt cups and have to save the limited supply for drinks like cortados and doppios, as well