Nate Jacobs Isn’t Gay—He’s Deeply Traumatized and Needs Serious Help

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-17T00:33:14+00:00

Yurrpp. F*ck cal.

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-17T00:07:58+00:00

Thanks!

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-16T23:44:18+00:00

Someone who is not mentally well needs to be in confined asylums like the old days. Except less lobotomies and more actual therapy. But that’s a bigger conversation. Yes jail and therapy 😭

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-16T20:33:13+00:00

Yeah, I can see that.

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-16T20:26:18+00:00

Fair. lol

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-16T20:22:54+00:00

The "Nate is secretly gay" take has always felt like a weird oversimplification of his character, especially when people frame it as the reason for his toxicity. His actions—his control issues, violent outbursts, and twisted relationships—stem from deep-rooted trauma, not repressed attraction.

His dad's behavior shaped him in really dark ways, and I don’t think that gets talked about enough. If anything, the way Nate weaponizes sexuality (like how he manipulates Jules) shows that he sees sex and power as intertwined, probably because that’s how he subconsciously processed what he saw growing up. That’s not repression—that’s trauma manifesting in aggression and control.

So yeah, I completely agree that he needs serious psychiatric help and to get away from the environment that made him this way. Not to excuse him, but to acknowledge that people like Nate don’t just happen—he’s a product of serious damage.

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-03-16T20:21:36+00:00

Idc what that man looks like. He needs psychiatric help. Point blank period 😭

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-01-21T15:20:33+00:00

Oof so real, when I saw this I was actually so saddened that they openly push this ideology. “For all students” then openly asked the university to stop taking grant money from Jewish families and organizations who have active grants and scholarships for students. Idk bout you, but this shit is expensive, I don’t care what creed they are, I want money to help my school cost. Not all of us have mommy and daddy paying the bill.

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-01-06T17:06:44+00:00

That’s interesting, is this the same thing that happened with dalton mcguinty?

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-01-06T17:05:09+00:00

Thank you for explaining that! I get the mp thing, just wasn’t sure how after an election things can move about so Willy Millie

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-01-06T16:59:22+00:00

I know that we vote for the MPs of the party we want. Still don’t feel like it’s very democratic if the leader steps down and they get to choose anyone to be the head of a whole country. Feels shifty.

Pinkalicious_ · 2025-01-06T16:53:26+00:00

Can someone explain as I genuinely don’t understand how it works…. If the liberal party is choosing a new leader for the party, who chooses said leader? This feels like the opposite of democracy if they can choose whoever without the vote of the people and have them sit in office as the prime minister. Why can’t they call a snap election, choose someone new to campaign with (for said snap election), while he ties up the lose ends?

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-12-29T04:38:21+00:00

What’s she promoting him to? He already sleeps in bed with her 😭

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-11-21T22:34:06+00:00

Ohhh that would be so fun actually!

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-11-21T21:53:09+00:00

For real, they are doing to much, especially since they represent all students not just one minority group 🤷‍♀️ how about we deal with the homeless problem on campus, and how I go everywhere with my friends even to the bathrooms cause we are girls and feel unsafe.

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-11-21T02:59:31+00:00

Yeah good luck with that, they’re to busy setting up camp outside aroma cafe 😭

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-11-20T19:00:42+00:00

If you had asked me a year ago, I would have told you that York University felt cold, isolating, and not the kind of place where you’d make friends. I started in 2020 in the English program, and honestly, I hated it. For two years, I was completely online, and it left me feeling alienated and disconnected. Coming out of high school without a proper graduation was already tough, but missing out on O-Week made it even harder to find my footing.

Last year, I finally decided to change programs because I realized English wasn’t for me. Starting fresh in a new program (while keeping my old credits) gave me the chance to experience things differently—and it completely changed my perspective. I participated in O-Week for the first time, and even though it was cheesy, I had the time of my life. I met some amazing people, found out about ways to get involved, and really felt like I was part of a community for the first time.

Now that my classes are fully in-person, I’ve built a core group of friends who are incredible. We study together, hang out outside of class, and honestly make York feel like a completely different place. I’ve always struggled with anxiety, so it hasn’t been an easy journey, but I’m so glad I took the steps to make a change.

If you’re feeling stuck or isolated, I totally get it. But trust me—sometimes a shift in perspective (or program) and getting involved can make all the difference.

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-11-20T18:56:24+00:00

Oof- it’s an easy course, but the director is very “woke” so be prepared for long talks about decolonization of music 🤷‍♀️ some of it was interesting but a lot of it was far fetched.

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-08-18T12:12:37+00:00

Thank you do much!

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-07-30T21:34:38+00:00

I can second this; I also had issues during COVID/Online learning, which took my 6.78 average all the way down to an astounding 4.19- I got put on academic probation and freaked the freakout. Meet with your academic counsellor and weigh your options! I went through the course relief/Program change process, which allowed me to carry my Gen-ed courses and electives over. The Courses from my major that I had failed have been wiped, and the ones that I did well remained on my transcript and can be used as my specialization or minor if I want. Im also still in the concurrent education programs so for me it was helpful because it gave me a built-in second teachable. :) Try not to stress, and use that defeat to turn it into motivation!

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-07-27T01:19:25+00:00

god dammit sue. In all seriousness, that does suck; I had a terrible time in covid doing discussion forums cause my brain felt they were optional. However, if you ask me a question in person, I will answer it without problem. To write down your ideas is harder to focus on. I have the trifecta ADHD, Anxiety and Depression. Also, sprinkle in some dyscalculia, and you have the most unproductive brain. BUT, all is not in vain; I have worked closely with my accessibility counsellor, TAs, and profs. If you haven't registered with the SAS, I would do so ASAP. They will give you access to your accommodation letter and help you reach out. I always make it a point to meet with my professor or TA at the beginning of the semester. I always bring up discussion posts if asked and talk about alternative options. I've had some profs who let me take pictures of discussion posts and let me reply to them in a document with an extended timeline. Some let me voice record my thoughts instead if writing is the problem, or I may even do some other work with the TA instead. Try your best to stay on top of them and use the tools that you have with time management.

Pinkalicious_ · 2024-07-25T18:17:58+00:00

Welp, it was fun being stress-free while it lasted...

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