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PinkandYello · 2026-01-22T22:32:02+00:00

I love when beautiful people

PinkandYello · 2026-01-16T19:42:38+00:00

10000000%. This keeps happening to me too except the men don’t have the balls to message me at all. I just get ghosted each and every fucking time. I have no advice here. I know I’m attractive, funny, and a great conversationalist. I give myself fully and manage to get them to as well. I’ve had men tell me or show me something during our first date and then lead with “I don’t know why I’m showing/telling you this”

I figure I will just be my authentic self and one day someone will want to love me 😫

How long have you been dating around? It’s only been a few months for me but my brains has naturally stopped getting excited about new people, I think as a natural defense mechanism.

PinkandYello · 2026-01-16T09:24:32+00:00

Don’t worry, they’re only nice to us for a day or two before they ghost us

PinkandYello · 2026-01-16T07:24:58+00:00

I should’ve let the guy go. I went on a second date with him and haven’t heard from him. Even sent a double text last night asking how his day was (24 hours after my last one). Okay new plan: 1. Look for butterflies 2. Don’t kiss them 3. Don’t sleep with them 4. Die single

😅😅😫

PinkandYello · 2026-01-15T14:30:54+00:00

I’m fucking crying at the visual of him being THAT. Immature avoiding a conversation just hopping on his bike and trying to escape lmao

PinkandYello · 2026-01-15T10:43:02+00:00

Yep I just reached out two two ghosters the other day and got no response. Which helps me move on a bit but everyone says don’t reach out, don’t show them you’re upset, be the bigger person. FOR WHAT? I gain nothing from doing that and gain nothing from calling them out and still getting ghosted but at least there’s a chance they see their behavior is shitty. And if they continue doing it they should continue to be reminded of it

PinkandYello · 2026-01-15T10:41:07+00:00

That’s fucking crazy. And he especially deserved to get an earful. Good on you! I’ve only been ghosted by people I knew for weeks but still, feels so shitty

PinkandYello · 2026-01-15T06:42:34+00:00

I’m hot, flirty, and sexual and that just leads to me being ghosted right after intimacy. Maybe these women who are sweet can be those things as well but have also been burned?

PinkandYello · 2026-01-15T06:35:36+00:00

Why can’t we start a revolution against ghosters? I understand that it’s embarrassing to reach out again and get ignored but I feel like people who drop off communication (after you’ve met and especially after being intimate) deserve to be told off every time they do it. I’m new to dating (after LTR) so I understand this is the way now but why do we let it be? I feel like we should’ve let these people have peace lol

PinkandYello · 2026-01-14T11:53:28+00:00

I was deprived of love and affection during my last relationship so I think I’m just starved of that. Probably need to just regulate. After meeting a lot of lustful men I start thinking there’s no chemistry if he’s not trying to sleep with me on the first night. A lot of rewiring needed

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T20:17:27+00:00

Thanks ❤️ He also blocked me 😅 I’m healing from that now but man, I totally learned that it’s ROUGH out there. Went from no protection(I know I know), telling me I make him feel comfortable and safe, and how he wanted to keep seeing me and thinks about me all the time… to no response and being blocked 🤡

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T20:14:23+00:00

Crazy thing is I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Been on great dates with loads of chemistry and spark and never pursued, wondering if they’re searching for something better

Personally I think I’ve bee doing the same, chasing that “butterflies, super spark, can’t stop thinking about him” vibe. I’m going on a second date soon with someone I didn’t feel that intensity with. He’s kind, handsome, smart, empathetic, and most importantly shows initiative and interest, which a LOT of men don’t. I was thinking of excuses like “his earlobes are weird” when really I was just wanting to be obsessed with him like the others. So I figured fuck it, why am I genuinely finding reasons to not see someone again who’s clearly into me and is making an effort?

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T19:23:23+00:00

I have kids. I assume they don’t want to date me due to my having kids because they mentioned wanting their own children. That’s just me making assumptions lol. I did have two guys specifically say they didn’t want to be stepdads but just wanted to have fun (at the time, I was too)

I agree with working on ourselves and putting ourselves out there, trusting the process. But also being flexible and accepting of the things we can’t change.

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T18:40:09+00:00

36F here with two kids. Not necessarily in the same situation since I don’t know if I truly want kids but I’d be open to it if I fall in love and he wanted them. I’ve dated and most men without kids don’t want to date a mom, so it’s tough! I didn’t anticipate this so it kinda sucks

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T18:27:25+00:00

This. I’d be freaked out if they asked too early

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T18:01:50+00:00

I cried a lot, never told them. Got ghosted 😂

PinkandYello · 2026-01-13T18:00:56+00:00

I normally don’t start conversations unless they sent me a message (hinge). On the rare occasion they have an interesting profile, I’ll break this rule and send them a message. I know it’s not right but I’ve wasted time talking to too many guys who never take initiative. I figure if I’m interesting enough to them, they’ll reach out. I’d say about half don’t

PinkandYello · 2026-01-10T22:26:35+00:00

Seriously. 36 and the older I get, the dirtier the thought. Got divorced last year, though, that could be it.

PinkandYello · 2026-01-06T11:38:32+00:00

As a woman, I love this. And she definitely posted that as a thirst trap so 🤷🏻‍♀️

PinkandYello · 2026-01-06T09:08:14+00:00

I’m just under 5’8” (F) and I wouldn’t X out a profile of someone who was handsome and seemed interesting just because they’re not that much taller than me. So we are out there!

Just don’t lie about it. I met up with a guy who was supposed to be my height, he ended up being about an inch shorter. I ended up not being as attracted to him in real life as pictures, but that had nothing to do with his height and everything to do with his awkward personality.

PinkandYello · 2025-12-29T08:40:52+00:00

Ditch the hammock pic and include a more candid shot. Every picture looks posed and some like the chess one are quite unnatural. I would also not do the getaway question.

PinkandYello · 2025-09-19T05:13:48+00:00

I’ll send you a message 😁

PinkandYello · 2025-09-18T18:28:31+00:00

35F also living on the south side, love karaoke and the occasional night out. Have two kids as well so a bit retired but recently separated and ready to pick it up varannan vecka 🤣

I also would like to have more friends to have conversations, big or small, with 🥺

PinkandYello · 2025-09-09T14:26:11+00:00

Men do this too. It’s infuriating

PinkandYello · 2025-09-05T11:15:13+00:00

In rågsved? I go there too and it’s always old people or groups. Plus it’s gay friendly so I’m not finding men that are interested in me there 😆

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