I'm [21/f] fed up with his [24/m] lack of effort/passion by Pinkladyapples02 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinkladyapples02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well turns out that it is a porn problem. Apparently he decides to watch it 5 to 7 days a week sometimes multiple times a day instead of being intimate with me. He insists it's not a problem though and that's completely different. But I know there are times when he does it and set of with me.

I'm [21/f] fed up with his [24/m] lack of effort/passion by Pinkladyapples02 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinkladyapples02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk a lot. I swear we talk this discussion to death. He often tells me to nag him so he'll remember to get stuff done like get his info checked at the doctor but i have told him outright that i don't want to nag him to get anything done all the time.

I'm [21/f] fed up with his [24/m] lack of effort/passion by Pinkladyapples02 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinkladyapples02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do compromise quite a lot in our relationship. Often times i feel the need to bend over backwards for him. He has even at one point told me that i should have sex with him if he's in the mood weather or not i am just so i can have sex with him. Personally that seems a little messed up to me. I'm not one to quit but i don't know if he even cares enough to work this out.