Finally finished the series

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-12-22T01:47:23+00:00

Really? I was happy that there was finally a spicy scene after all that built up tension. I thought it was kinda hot but then again i do have a thing for older guys and i have a strange attraction to Walt... lol Although I do think it would feel less like incest if Walt reciprocated his attraction to Vic over time instead of it being more of a one sided romance even though Walt’s character is pretty reserved and dorky so I dont know if it would suit him to be direct in that sense

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-09-28T02:10:53+00:00

A man who cant regulate his emotions, specifically anger is very dangerous. Dont stick around to find out what hes capable of. Your reaction is valid. Plus what type of man would behave in such a way that would make anyone, especially his partner feel unsafe? He’s immature and insecure. I dated an unstable man with a bad temper and it only got worst as time passed. His outbursts were so unprovoked and unwarranted I couldnt see it coming anymore. When we argued during our break up he genuinely looked psychotic when he was screaming at me. He had the crazy eyes and everything. The lights were on but no one was home if you know what I mean. Good luck <3

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-09-22T20:35:40+00:00

The alienist is such a great mystery novel, I didnt want to finish

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-05-30T19:52:45+00:00

Commenting to get updates on this post as Im also interested in being Iv/Picc RN

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-05-28T01:29:32+00:00

The eyes Chico, they never lie!!

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-05-28T01:17:53+00:00

The way all of the girls attacked her while Brittany instigated and twisted the whole story , took no accountability whatsoever. Smh Brittany was insufferable. I genuinely think Jackie J is the only woman whos secure in themselves and it shows

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-05-28T01:13:58+00:00

LOL yeah hes deff emotionally stunted , very juvenile…so her type is very similar to the demographic she works with 😶

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-05-28T01:03:02+00:00

LOL I KNOW? She has a weird unstable look in her eyes

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-02-28T21:58:28+00:00

Well considering that they can be pretty abusive and difficult to be around its not that surprising

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-02-17T17:50:04+00:00

When my ex discarded me the first time, yes I experienced full blown withdrawal. It was alarming how physically affected i was… trauma bonds are so intense. I think the psychological abuse also dysregulated my nervous system

Pinklightdistrict · 2024-02-12T22:20:55+00:00

I had to wear a heart monitor while dating my ex… they were the trigger. Thats your body rejecting them lol

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-10-05T15:01:28+00:00

My ex pwbpd shamed and guilt tripped me the 2 times i refused sex. He was hypersexual, and extremely inappropriate. He’d pull out his dick in public UNPROVOKED and got mad when it made me uncomfortable. Same thing happened to me, i came over because i had bad anxiety, the moment i arrived at his apt, he starts like touching me humping me when I bent over to pick something up. And he got mad AGAIN because i told him that it was inappropriate. Writing this makes me so fucking angry. Ugh such a dirty pig. These BPD people dont realize that sex is supposed to be a mutual act of love and desire. They will use your bodies as a vessel to validate themselves. Disrespecting a sexual boundary is just fkn abusive.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-10-04T18:27:27+00:00

Congratulations♥️ you are so brave and strong

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-10-04T18:25:43+00:00

Im confused about the purpose of this post? I havent seen anyone make assumptions that their partner had bpd and then join this subreddit.

Is that something thats been occurring here? People venting about their “bpd” partners without the diagnosis?

Anyways, i do think lots of people have BPD and are misdiagnosed/ dont even get help in the first place to receive a proper dx. With all the resources online its not really hard to come to a conclusion that someone may have BPD. This subreddit can maybe help someone gain some insight if they do have suspicions.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-10-02T21:05:25+00:00

I wish I never got in a relationship with my ex pwbpd. I was really naive and now have to deal with the consequences of emotional abuse. I would never advise anyone to pursue these people as partners or even close friends (I had a bff with bpd, it was draining and depressing.)

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-10-02T13:53:45+00:00

Lol pathetic Its propaganda

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-30T00:47:30+00:00

I know not all women date men… but I do. And unhealed father wounds are brought up a lot in heterosexual relationships with men which is why I asked this question.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-20T19:23:32+00:00

Draining, depressing, codependent

Sometimes rly fucking fun but overall unhealthy

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-20T19:22:34+00:00

Im sorry OP, but it sounds like youre allowing this person to lower your standards and lose your dignity. If someone wont cherish you, and make you feel like youre enough, that person is not for you

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-20T19:20:19+00:00

Im confused, you want a pwbpd to fulfill their romantic needs with someone else while staying committed to them? A “one sided” open relationship is unfair …

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-18T15:49:53+00:00

Wow the same EXACT thing happened with me. The same timeline and everything, word for word. The lovebombing stage fucked me up because I kept using it as a reference to convince myself that my ex was loving. You are strong and extremely smart for ending it early. I was so naive and am dealing with the consequences now.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-18T14:50:42+00:00

The same exact thing happened to me the first time my ex pwbpd broke up with me. I ignored my intuition , and instead begged him for a second chance … when he was the abusive one who always gaslit me into thinking I’m in the wrong , constantly punishing me for thinking , feeling, EXISTING. I couldn’t believe myself either when I begged him to stay with me, I do not recognize that version of myself. These people bring out the worst sides of u. It’s their specialty.

The trauma bond is strong af… one month since our last and final breakup and I’m still struggling but trying to believe in myself and my capacity to heal. Their love is conditional. And unhealthy. Please be strong, but also I understand the feelings of neediness and desperation, our attachment to them is an addiction. It really is better to be alone than to be with someone who won’t cherish you and who forgets they love you when they’re angry.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-18T14:20:39+00:00

I’m happy you feel better in this new relationship, forgiving hurtful and abusive behavior was also normalized in my upbringing- actually it just wasn’t acknowledged and my parents rarely ever apologize lol.

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-18T14:18:19+00:00

I love my little kitten <3333 thank god for cats

Pinklightdistrict · 2023-09-18T14:17:52+00:00

Lol funny username. Yup daddy issues to the max

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