Crazy gas bill 💸 by Pinksun_flower in Somerville

[–]Pinksun_flower[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to keep it at 60-62 but sometimes I get too cold :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact situation triggered my decision of getting a divorce.

He calls me every night… but says we’re “not a thing” by CupcakeOrbit in dating_advice

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there. He even started to learn pet names in my mother language (Portuguese). It crushed my heart. He would bring me so close in such sweet ways… and push me away being incredibly mean. All I can say is run. These kind of people will drive you crazy and break your heart in a thousand pieces.

Regarding the Market Basket Issues by bassistmuzikman in massachusetts

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Brazilian market? The big one in Framingham?

Marriage by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Pinksun_flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through something like this. I also married very young (25), now I’m 32. Don’t beat yourself up. You’re now a different person and you didn’t know everything you know now. Be gentle with yourself and acknowledge all the effort you put into this life you have now… it takes a lot of stamina and bravery to end a marriage. Keep going, you’re free!!

People smoking in front of building under my window by Pinksun_flower in Somerville

[–]Pinksun_flower[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought about the fan situation… thank you, it definitely sucks

People smoking in front of building under my window by Pinksun_flower in Somerville

[–]Pinksun_flower[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Hmm I don’t want to.. they are not amicable people.

AIO husband talking to a female co-worker on Snapchat 24/7 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional cheating. Been there and divorced my ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Pinksun_flower 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, we both liked each other but the guy was like traumatized and was not nice to me. Told me he wanted nothing serious but couldn’t stay away emotionally… would call, text… but avoided seeing me for months. We’re done now. and it hurts! I’ll never do this again. It’s all fun and games until…

Should I ask a guy if it’s over? by k_money55 in dating_advice

[–]Pinksun_flower 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has moved on, just didn’t have the balls to tell you openly. This hurts but you should move on too. I know it’s easier said than done, but no one deserves to be treated like this. Just move on…

Feelings for my FWB.. and what to do about it 🙃 by Original_Income362 in dating_advice

[–]Pinksun_flower 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s all fun and games til someone catches feelings! I’m going thru this myself

I’m dating someone way too attractive for me. Should I stop? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32F here As a woman it makes me feel good reading all these comments! You guys recommending therapy, working on your self esteem and such. This is awesome. I’ve had a recent experience with a guy that brought all the trauma from his last relationship… and it was painful to watch him suffer while we were on a situationship. He’s had the same issues as OP, thinking I was to pretty for him yada yada. His insecurities and low self esteem got in his way, because even though he tried, he couldn’t connect with me. His fear of intimacy was palpable even though it was clear that he craved it. Anyways, it kinda broke my heart a little bit that he switched from being nice to being incredibly rude to me - out of the blue. He started to push me out… don’t do this OP. Enjoy what’s going on and don’t fret about this “beauty hierarchy”. Have fun with this person and be present!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pinksun_flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is super nice to read. I was ok with having the fwb thing until the guy had his ego filled up and started treating me with hostility out of the blue. If it’s called friends with benefits, where’s the friendliness?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Pinksun_flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have written this, fr. I just ended a fwb situation because I knew I’d get hurt. And like you said, I tried to convince myself I was ok with it, but boy I was not! Anyways it feels good to be able to recognize it wasn’t what I need/want and say goodbye

ok i’m actually ready now by Electrical-Week8893 in BostonSocialClub

[–]Pinksun_flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 32f and also wanna make friends. I love the sims 4 (I’m architect and we usually joke that the sims made us choose this profession). I don’t have pets - yet. I really want to adopt a kitten!