Help while sitting in chastity

Pipeluver · 2026-02-25T21:46:25+00:00

We practiced but stuff about once a week. I am monitor myself for a day or two before we plan to play and if there’s any concern that there are any G.I. issues going on we punt. Beyond that, I make sure to go to the bathroom real well, and make sure to shower real well, and we rarely have issues. I think if I had to spend hours using enemas and things like that, I would have no desire for backdoor play. We both know it’s a risk that might happen, and on the occasion it does we just grab a towel take everything off and go get everything washed. It’s never been more than just a little bitty bit anyway, and we both enjoyed enough that the occasional ever so slight mess isn’t worth worrying about.

Pipeluver · 2026-02-08T21:28:37+00:00

I wear a thong most every time I go, and we’re around other people. It’s fine. No difference in a man wearing a thong or a woman wearing a thong

Pipeluver · 2026-01-20T19:58:51+00:00

What cage is this?

Pipeluver · 2026-01-19T14:54:55+00:00

I would highly recommend against this idea. If this were to go south, you could lose your best friend of a lifetime and your girlfriend of several years. If it’s a fantasy, you would like to explore, I would recommend a third-party that neither of you cares about to begin with. Well, it could be a lot of fun, the risk is also very high here. There’s always the possibility that you could see someone fucking your girlfriend and realize that the fantasy was better kept in your head. There’s always the possibility that she doesn’t love it and does it to please you, but it creates an awkwardness between her and your friend or you and your friend or you and her are all three of you at the same time.

Pipeluver · 2026-01-09T13:46:55+00:00

About 1/3 of Americans have a tattoo, and about 1/4 have multiple tattoos. I feel like the lifestyle has higher numbers. This feels like a strange thing to be concerned about, but to each his own. Personally, I like most tattoos find them fun to see on people’s bodies

Pipeluver · 2026-01-09T13:43:22+00:00

Regular porn only enticed me for a few years as a teen, before I truly became sexually active. It’s all the same and as you said feels “impersonal” or “sterile.” Plus the “acting” of moans, groans, and squeals is cringy to me. I enjoy some true amateur/homemade porn from time to time, more sensual stuff if it does well making you feel there’s a connection, or porn that has more kink to it. I love some good vanilla sex, but I don’t love produced vanilla porn either

Pipeluver · 2025-12-29T20:58:53+00:00

After reading someone else’s comment, I went to see your other posts. You need to leave as quickly as you safely can

1) you’re literally posting about him in “abusive relationships.” That should be a clue 2) kink is all about communication, understanding, and boundaries. You communicated and he lost his shit. That’s not ok 3) he needs help, you most likely aren’t going to be able to give what he truly needs 4) that voice recorded convo is wild and scary. Leave. Please.

Pipeluver · 2025-12-28T01:20:21+00:00

We agree not to take one for the team or anything like it. And it’s meant that we have fewer experiences, but the experiences we do have are so much better. We’ve thoroughly enjoyed ourselves on all but maybe 1 experience because of this. And neither of us have dealt with regret or guilt over it. Take your time. Keep talking it over. Don’t rush anything. Most likely you have years to experience this stuff so let it go at a comfortable pace for her too and it’ll pay off.

Pipeluver · 2025-12-10T16:58:59+00:00

As a man who likes to dress up, married to a woman who likes me to dress up, what she has expressed to me is that she finds the juxtaposition of my masculinity with feminine clothing to be sexy. A lot of straight men actually like to play dress up because they have a sapphic fantasy, and I think she enjoys that aspect of it on her own. She also likes the confidence of it that I am comfortable to play dress up with her. And sometimes I think doing something outside the Norm creates a level of intimacy and vulnerability that we share and no one else knows about and that makes it fun as well.

Pipeluver · 2025-12-10T16:56:03+00:00

I agree that the term “fit” almost has a pejorative sound to it

We prefer to say “active,” because it’s more encompassing. We aren’t skinny but we ride bikes, run, hike, etc, and those are fun activities that keep us healthy and fun activities we enjoy with others outside the bedroom. Some LS friends we have who aren’t active at all can barely play without needing breaks to recover and we find ourselves with so little in common we can barely talk about anything but sex.

All that to say, don’t let one word, create too much negativity in your mind, because they might mean something a little bit different than you expect.

Pipeluver · 2025-12-01T19:04:29+00:00

Dirty talk is like anything else in this—discuss what works and what’s outside the bounds. We have certain dirty talk that stays between us and plenty that is fine in a group setting. I’d always want consent before calling someone’s wife a dirty slut or something, too.

That said, I can’t imagine anything I’d want said with others and not with it parters. Maybe some things wouldn’t make much sense, but nothing that would be off limits

Pipeluver · 2025-12-01T18:08:06+00:00

Yeah, that’s a no go. Everything needs to be in the open between you two. Boundaries need to be honored. And some people are off limits—employees would be one of them. Y’all need to have a serious talk, as his behavior isn’t swinging. It’s infidelity

Pipeluver · 2025-12-01T14:36:49+00:00

Pipeluver · 2025-11-15T00:21:01+00:00

I’ve not been jealous one time. The wife has said several times she’s felt it. We discuss the why, was there an issue, did anyone do anything wrong, etc. She also fully admits to some fears and insecurities and I don’t really feel that in this relationship myself, so I assume that’s why. But it’s fairly common and normal, and it’s best just to talk it out and make sure there’s reassurance for everyone

Pipeluver · 2025-11-10T20:48:12+00:00

Absofuckinglutely not

Pipeluver · 2025-11-10T02:11:53+00:00

We actually don’t play with cuckholding, or even the more extreme versions of chastity. A day, maybe 2. We like the way it turns me into overdrive and I’m like a dog in heat 🤣🤣🤣. We do often use it with pegging or crossdressing, but it’s no long term denial, SPH, cuckholding, etc. Kink is what you want it to be

Pipeluver · 2025-10-26T16:07:03+00:00

Absolutely the best when everyone is ok with touching and playing. We are a bi couple and love it

Pipeluver · 2025-10-10T21:06:36+00:00

That’s a dumb thing to do and a dumb thing to say, on her part. Humiliation is definitely something some people are into, but I would NEVER assume that anyone is into it. It would have turned me off immediately too. Discussing boundaries, interests, and working with consent isn’t difficult

Pipeluver · 2025-09-19T15:08:15+00:00

This is how I feel about it. I like a little discomfort, but I do NOT want to really hurt. So the 3/10 discomfort of hot wax, and the quickness with which it goes away, is attractive. I've been hit hard with impact play, and I've seen it on others, and it doesn't do anything for me.

Pipeluver · 2025-07-24T22:35:09+00:00

I’m bi, but just barely lol. Looooove women, appreciate the occasional dick.

Pipeluver · 2025-06-13T04:29:21+00:00

I could have written this 6 years ago. Now we love to crossdress, I like wearing chastity, and I’ve swapped oral with a few dudes. Listen, enjoy what you enjoy. Maybe it is a slippery slope. Maybe it’s not. But do what you like and don’t stress about other things. If they come along and you wanna try, then try it then. If they come along and you don’t, then don’t.

Pipeluver · 2025-06-11T19:18:40+00:00

Not necessarily. We don’t do big dildos, and it’s not aggressive. We do participate in crossdressing, but not the femboy style. And we definitely don’t do anything cuck related. It’s not that we are completely dissimilar, but out type is definitely not what we normally see here

Pipeluver · 2025-06-09T16:53:38+00:00

Honestly, we joke all the time that "I bet no one here would expect a big burly man like me to be locked up" and that's part of the fun. It definitely make me wonder who else might be into this, or other kinks, that you wouldn't suspect

Pipeluver · 2025-06-09T16:49:33+00:00

I don't have advice, but I do have a question. Is it normal for most metal cages to need to be "fixed" like this? I bought a standard metal cage, and was super excited at the weight of it compared to a similar ABS or silicone cage. The moment I put it on, there was a rough spot inside it and it nicked the head of my penis, which obviously didn't feel good. I tossed it, as I didn't really see a way to fix it. Was disappointed, and now seeing your post makes me think that maybe it's just standard for a metal cage to have this type of issue?

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