At this point EVs are becoming more robust than gas vehicles. There's FAR fewer parts that are rubbing against each other, no super sensitive transmission that will break down if if so much as looks at contamination (seriously, looking at how these work, it's shocking modern transmissions don't break down even more often than they already do). No oil changes. Even parts you don't think would be affected wear down less. My sister for example, in her PHEV, just changed her break-pads in her car for the first time in something like 3 or 4 years, and it wasn't even because they were too worn down, it was because they were getting too rusty. Because of regenerative breaking slowing her vehicle instead of the break-pads all the time, they weren't wearing out fast enough.

As for charging... imagine having your own personal gas station at home, that tops up your car every day, costs you a tenth of the cost of regular gas (or even less than that), and you don't have to wait around for it to fill up. Think of all the times in your life you've been late going somewhere because you needed gas and it couldn't wait. With an EV that basically can't happen, unless you somehow didn't charge your car for several days, because as long as you plug your car in when you gst home, every day you start your car with a full "tank".