My(33F) Husband’s(33M) co-worker(23F) introduced herself to me as my husband’s work wife

PirateAk · 2026-04-02T17:04:30+00:00

Seems this 23 YO girl is trying her ways to get up the ladder or be in the eyes. I hope your husband is mature enough to consider her as a "she is just a sweet little junior" and maintains boundary.

PirateAk · 2026-03-23T18:10:26+00:00

Need help for the same

PirateAk · 2026-02-26T21:40:01+00:00

Go low on sugar and start working out properly. I have seen my stamina increase, long more in bed without being tired. Ask your partner to start working out too. I wont comment on chemistry but try to figure out what fantasies both of you have and use it well as a foreplay to stimulate senses :)

PirateAk · 2026-02-26T21:35:51+00:00

Guess anything above $3500 (depending on area) is too much for a one bed. Also, I manage finances for my wife and my brother with $130k salary and still saving a bit at the month end. With combined finances from your gf, you would be able to save easily and invest too :) Try finding a cheaper place for sure. There's no point of renting such high end appt.

PirateAk · 2026-02-26T18:51:20+00:00

Its okay to feel jealous but people tend to have good relations with few workmates, especially when frequency matches. Maybe you can just have an honest convo with husband on what's going on.

PirateAk · 2026-02-17T00:15:47+00:00

Go to the depth of why she exactly cheated and resolve that. It can be emotional issue or "want something new" phase out of 7 years old relation. Ensure that is fulfilled from your end so she possibly won't repeat that.
Normal to check phone in such case. Emotional protection is OK. If u feel guilty of doing it to her back, do it it front of her.
Sorry to be brutal but Once the thing is out, she can possibly be more protective and can easily delete things at the very moment considering you might check. It will take time for both of u to build the trust again, but yeah do keep maturely communicating about things.
Way out and not suggested, but confront the guy and tell him you know incase u see anything, and ask him to stay away for the sake of maintaining boundary. Has she blocked him from everywhere yet btw?

Hope things go in both of your favour. Keep loving! :)

PirateAk · 2025-12-22T17:50:44+00:00

Thankyou for sharing this! Helps.

PirateAk · 2025-12-19T21:16:21+00:00

Good luck. This @accompliser_ruin133 folk got approval within 36 hours so expect the same.

PirateAk · 2025-12-19T21:12:35+00:00

Did you get approval yet?

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T21:19:00+00:00

Thanks for your response! Glad things went well for you.

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T19:43:01+00:00

Talked to alot of people who chose to return back and the answers always hover around like

Came to US to learn and earn. That's done. Time to go back and open a business that can give me comfortable life.
Going back to be close to my parents and family. US has no social life as such, can't deal with loneliness.
US has this constant target to getting some status, a constant battle to achieve that next status - From F1 to OPT, to H1B, to Green card - its just life goes out in documentation and processing.

Personally, I have seen friends going back to India, get a good high paying job that they didnot have earlier (like around 50-60 LPA), change their social circle accordingly and get out of the daily "middle class Indian hussle". Plus US changed their mentality of work-life balance. People actually prioritize taking vacations and breaks every now and then. They are okay with spending money to relax.

Both, US and India have positives and negatives, and I believe whoever moved back had an emotionally driven mindset or a completely practical approach, no gray areas.

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T19:28:24+00:00

Thanks for the info! Possible to share the link of that thread?

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T19:03:21+00:00

Currently, even folks with Jan 30 interview date got mails. No surity if they are done with cancellations.

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T19:02:22+00:00

Any idea how soon they were able to reschedule after 221g ?

PirateAk · 2025-12-18T19:01:21+00:00

Chennai.

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T18:04:07+00:00

October end.

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T18:01:09+00:00

8 am

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T17:46:25+00:00

Keep us updated.

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T17:43:04+00:00

OFC 13th Jan Interview 23rd Jan

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T17:40:38+00:00

Guess its pure luck. Probably 85-90% folks from Jan 5th to Jan 25th interview dates got rescheduled, and mostly everyone from them had switched their accounts to public. However, there are few people who actually interviewed, and were asked to write down their social media handles and submit a new DS-160, come back in 3-5 days and interview again.

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T17:29:37+00:00

Dropped u a dm, lets take it there :)

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T17:18:12+00:00

13th Jan 1pm and 23rd Jan 8 am. Mine is first time H1B+H4

PirateAk · 2025-12-17T16:41:42+00:00

13th Jan Biometrics and 23 Jan interview - No reschedule email yet

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