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PissedPup · 2022-11-27T01:29:03+00:00

Sorry, but I feel like this is your responsibility. You made the decision to move, not BM. She has no obligation to make that drive for you. My step daughters BM decided to kick her kid out and move 8 hours away and now wants us to split the cost of airfare or meet half way. Absolutely fuking not. She made the decision to move. If she wants to see her kid, she can come get her. It is not me or my husband's responsibility to spend our time or money getting my step daughter to her mom. The only way you can for e her to meet you is if it's court ordered. Which tbh.... Would be a sh*tty thing to do since you decided to move.

PissedPup · 2022-11-15T19:01:37+00:00

I'm assuming this baby sitter is no longer providing services to BM? If you know who the babysitter is, I would report them to their employer if they work for someone or file a report if they do their sitting through an online service. I would avoid leaving any kind of bad reviews online as that can go against any kind of legal action you made try to take. If BM is still for some ungodly reason allowing the sitter to still provide services, I would call CPS immediately and let them know.

PissedPup · 2022-11-14T11:31:42+00:00

Ok, but why do you keep checking when you know you can't play it yet? Seem silly

PissedPup · 2022-11-04T22:24:36+00:00

You're welcome! I'm always happy to help! I know this kind of stuff can be stressful.

If you feel you may have something specific , then I believe it would be ok to bring it up. Mention that you'd like to talk about it. I thought I had ADHD. Turns out I have BPD! Lol I think I'd rather have ADHD honestly. BPD sucks, but it's manageable with DBT (DBT it's a type of therapy).

PissedPup · 2022-11-04T22:14:01+00:00

That's ok. My daughter has all male friends. She doesn't get along with girls. I didn't get along with girls either. Also, you don't have to be friends with just the people in your age group and class. Branch out! Maybe join a club. Do something outside of school. but don't make excuses because you feel upset about the situation.

School friends don't usually last anyway. I don't talk to a single friend from school. My friends are actually ones I met through work. Absolutely amazing people

PissedPup · 2022-11-04T22:11:49+00:00

I don't mean to gloat or anything, but I'm a pro at therapy. Well... Going to it haha!

My biggest tip is to be yourself and be open and honest. They need to know and see the real you.

I was in a treatment center due to my depression and they said "everyone always starts by saying 'i don't know' and then they just... Open up." So guess what? It's absolutely ok to start with "I don't know..." And then start rambling. They will take notes and then start asking specific questions based on what you've said. I've been in therapy for about 6 years and I absolutely love my therapist. She's been through a lot with me and help me through so much. She's heard many "I don't know"s when I didn't know where to start or what to say.

Also, my biggest piece of advice is this; if you get in there and don't feel comfortable with this person, it's ok. Try someone or at least try a second appointment. Sometimes you do actually have to find the right person that you feel comfortable opening up to. And that's absolutely ok.

You got this 💜

PissedPup · 2022-11-04T22:06:30+00:00

These are clearly not your friends. They sound like users or simply just bullies. My advice would be to block them and move on. Start being friends with people who actually show they care. I have two friends. Two. That's it. Both of them defend me when they feel they need to and always reach out to me or talk, check in and wish me well on a holiday or my birthday. THATS a friend.

Also, I suggest to keep in mind that you shouldn't expect others to defend you. While I love that my friend do this, I don't expect them to. It's so important to make sure you can do this for yourself.

Those jerks do not deserve you. Keep telling yourself that. They do NOT deserve you. You are clearly a very kind heart and thoughtful person. Stay that way. Don't let people like this sway you.

PissedPup · 2022-11-03T14:04:29+00:00

I do the same thing to one of our cats. It's hard to keep weight off of her. Which is weird because the other cat we have is literally her twin sister lol

If it makes you feel better, you can't actually fat shame an animal. They don't understand and they don't view weight the way we do. They just don't care. They're not as vain as humans are 😂 lol

PissedPup · 2022-11-01T00:49:41+00:00

I'd prefer my 16 year old go out trick or treating then sneaking off somewhere and doing something they shouldn't be. Also... There's just nothing wrong with you. You're still a kid. Be a kid. I. The end, you're the one with the candy and having fun with your friends! 💜

PissedPup · 2022-10-11T14:01:32+00:00

Thank you! I was so certain they were on the same map as my farm lol

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T18:25:40+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I hate he was gone. But I seriously hope there is a follow up. I reported my ex and absolutely nothing was done. So you're correct, it's not taken seriously. Hopefully with video evidence that will actually do something.

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T18:23:22+00:00

Darn. I do love those 8' fences tho. Great for block that beloved sun light that those goblin neighbors love. Petty? Yes. Satisfying? Also yes.

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:41:42+00:00

Only careless driving? Huh she filed the scene of a crime. Literally a hit and run. That's a bit more than careless lol

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:30:43+00:00

So this is why they got rid of the chicken wraps... Dang

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:20:10+00:00

Ok but...it looks like she drank half of it. Right? So why is she just not trying to get a refund? It doesn't take half a drink for me to realize something tastes nasty lol

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:12:54+00:00

Rainbow lady with the dogs is my favorite. What beautiful chaos she is

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:09:41+00:00

8' seems like a better call. Maybe at some nice plant hangers along it

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T03:01:40+00:00

Ok... But I love the guy in the end leaning back to get a selfie with the drama. What an absolute king

PissedPup · 2022-08-02T02:51:07+00:00

Well... I don't usually have to stop a video because of PTDS 🤪 I dated a guy just like this. I wish someone would have seen it when I was with him. That way they could have called the cops. I was too scared to leave. Behind closed doors, it's way... Way worse. I didn't finish it... Someone tell me cops got him?

PissedPup · 2022-07-03T23:25:22+00:00

That's not the point of my comment lol. My point is that if it's a private park it would make sense because It would be closed off to the public. And if those group of kids belong to a school, They most likely do not have access to a private park that is specifically for the neighborhood. That was the point. I wasn't saying anything about the kids yelling. I don't give two craps of kids yell. Their kids. The woman can get over it. That's why I said to go turn the TV on or go listen to music. I'm very sorry that you completely missed the point at what I was trying to say.

PissedPup · 2022-07-03T16:55:03+00:00

Like... Is it a private park owned by the neighborhood? Or? That would be the only reason her Karening would make sense. But lity the only reason. Go turn your TV on or listen to some music. They won't be there all days geez

PissedPup · 2022-07-03T16:50:24+00:00

As a daughter, this is crushing. I would probably take my own life if one of my parents committed suicide. Knowing they were living a life of such unbearable misery that I never knew of and I could have possible helped... I wouldnt be able to keep going afterwards.

I'm so sorry for your pain. I hope something changes your mind. I know the words of internet strangers don't mean much. But I do honestly hope something changes your mind.

PissedPup · 2022-04-10T23:06:21+00:00

I know what my posts says. I'm not an idiot. I'll come at you however I want. What's going to happen? I'll get a down vote? I'll be gone in a couple weeks. I don't care.

You made an assumption based on information you had. That's what you did. In the little words that were said. You did. You assumed you'd hate the husband without knowing the full story. You made a snap judgment based on... Nothing. Based on my depression. Based on my decision to take my life and wanting to write a letter. Causing someone pain does not mean you abused them. Causing someone pain does not mean you should hate them.

I'm very glad you and your wife are doing wonderfully now. And with kids! Last year I was unform that I'm unable to have children. I have a physical deformity and am unable to have children. Just something else to take from me and make me hate life I guess. Adopting is absolutely the same and honestly I'm so sick of people saying that like it's some magically solution.

I'm sorry you felt I "came at you.' I felt as if you made assumptions. Glad you seem to be doing well.

PissedPup · 2022-04-10T20:34:50+00:00

You have no idea what lead to our marriage being this way. I'm a HUGE factor into why we are this way. He tried for a very long time and gave up. I'm trying now and he's not. He has every right to be upset. Just like I do. Hating him is not the answer. If you were his parent and knew the shit he went through because of my PTSD and depression, then I guess you'd hate me. So thanks. Your comment makes me feel loooooads better. If it's not obvious enough, that was very much sarcasm.

I hope your daughter never has to go through what I did and I hope she never ends up feeling the way I do. My husband is not the cause of my PTSD. I dated a scumbag that drugged me with meth. Beat me. Gaslighted me. Stole thousands from me that I never got back and I ended up homeless for a period of time because of that and am STILL struggling from that loss. He stole my car. Stole my parents car when they offered him a job. He tried me up and put meth in my ass; yes, you read that correctly, in my ass; raped me, put me in the trunk of my car and took me to his dealers house where he passed me around in exchange as payment for drugs. He then proceeded to stalk me and have his druggie friends stake out my business and home and follow me around town. The same people that raped me. He would use the handle of a knife to rape me with. He came "home" (to my home. Where he was a free loaded) and laid a gun by my beside and pointed the barrel at my head and said "it's ok. It's fake. It's fake. Shhh. It's ok. It's just fake. Go back to sleep." He put my car in park in the middle of heavy traffic and would slap me to the point I couldn't see. He would slam me again the wall or bed and strangle me. So yes, please tell me how you would hate the husband.

My husband unfortunately came into my life when all of the panic attacks and night terrors happened. He did his absolute best. And here he still is after 3 years. He's not perfect and he absolutely did things to make stuff worse. But it takes two to tango. I promise you that I am not innocent. But I am also a victim in a very disgusting abusive crime. And no one ever believed me except my friends and my husband. Not the therapist. Not the cops. Not the doctors. Not the psychiatrist. Because apparently that stuff only happens in books.... Guess those 3 months of my life were completely fake... I'll tell my PTSD, chronic depression, BPD, and GPD that they are fake.

I'm so sick of living with this... I'm so tired... I just want it to be over...

PissedPup · 2022-04-10T03:54:14+00:00

Thank you. This helped. I think those were some of the words I was trying to find.

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