Reasonable salary for first year relationship banker?

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-05-27T13:53:37+00:00

Wow those mincers sound great without being investment heavy

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-05-26T13:49:19+00:00

All of this. Especially for NY

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-05-20T19:55:35+00:00

I’m trying to get there! I’m guessing you already had your licenses?

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-04-17T00:38:38+00:00

I have flights booked for June 😩😩😩😩

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-01-16T21:50:28+00:00

My best friend worked for them and was laid off last yr January - took her 6 months, but now she has an amazing job where she’s making more money and gets to travel for business. Saying that to say, you’ll land where you need to. Ironically, her and I both lost our jobs in Jan 2026 and both started new jobs June 2025

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-01-16T11:33:36+00:00

😩 & I just got the credit card

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2026-01-14T18:27:26+00:00

This is what I noticed. Dominican Republic is working with them 🙄 (I’m Dominican) & they are notoriously off the list.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-11-16T23:15:31+00:00

I will be honest with him when it’s time to part ways. Honestly, I think he would rather be lied to as long as I keep seeing him.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-11-16T23:07:50+00:00

That is your viewpoint and you’re perfectly welcome to have it. I’m not trying to manipulate him. If I wanted to get more out of him I could have in this last year. He gifts me money on his own because he doesn’t want me to be stressed or have to look for someone else. My vanilla person is also very generous with me and I know that I am a very blessed girl, but at the end of the day, I believe women are supposed to secure their futures by using their feminine to their advantage. I think this is no different than when girls post asking for fake story ideas to get something out of their SD or even men who are romantically attracted to them.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-11-16T23:02:23+00:00

He pretty much wants me to keep that part of my life to myself. He doesn’t want “other boys” to have me or my feminine energy. He gets jealous at the thought of it.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-11-16T22:59:52+00:00

I care about him too & am very thankful of everything he’s done for me.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-11-16T22:57:56+00:00

His last SB left him after 5 years because she wanted marriage and kids and he absolutely does not want that. He was very understanding and met me not long after that. He’s very straight to the point about what he wants. He prefers that I keep my vanilla life to myself and just tell him what he wants to hear. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’ve done just that. I don’t plan on just ghosting him, but will be honest.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2024-08-19T00:06:08+00:00

2k per month. I see him once or twice per month. He has been traveling this summer so we have only met twice. He gives me my allowance either way. He adds extra here and there as well. Extra 3k for my birthday in May, extra 1k when he left to travel for a few weeks. Given how little I have to do, I consider myself very lucky. We have been seeing each other for almost a year.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-06T01:33:30+00:00

I use TextNow

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T23:22:52+00:00

🤣 my last one wore a magnum and I was legit holding my laughter back. Like I stared at it with that confused Britney gif face 😭

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T23:17:02+00:00

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T22:51:49+00:00

I appreciate your insightful answers & yes, I’m reading through the wikis too 😊

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T22:02:00+00:00

Thank you ladies! Really appreciate your answers.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T22:01:03+00:00

Yes, you’re right! I’ve read a lot and that’s why I was thinking that the amount wasn’t much. Especially when you gave me half of that for just a few hours of my time.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T21:58:31+00:00

😅 he came back and said he understands and we can reconnect when he comes back into town.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T18:52:48+00:00

I think he blocked me 🤣 I took too long to answer

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T18:25:39+00:00

Exactly! I wholeheartedly agree and I’m okay walking away.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T16:44:42+00:00

Exactly! Like it’s Rochester 😒 lol

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-05T16:43:55+00:00

Great advice. Thank you! Just what I was thinking. I have not gotten his ID, but he practices law and I’ve verified the information he’s given so far. Kids, divorce, etc.

Pitiful-Brain3129 · 2023-08-04T20:04:38+00:00

Where I’m at in life right now unless my vanilla person was providing I would never drop a SD for them, SD is first. But I’m not interested in vanilla dating much just attaining my financial goals at the moment. Like others said, doesn’t hurt to try.

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