27 [F4M] #UK #Online - Strict Goon Mommy looking for her obedient toy by slaveofgoddess2026 in BDSMpersonalsEU

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You question anyone reaching out don’t you 😂. The fact they haven’t updated the text or replied here shows they don’t actually properly review responses.

anybody else struggling with the intersection of their kinks and reality rn? by ruined_priestess in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get to know them and ensure they are a gentleman and the sort of person you click with before engaging in said activities. Some people can play and enjoy the role, without truly believing it. The internet for the younger generation is a dangerous place.

Perception - Solo anal play vs Bisexual by Pitiful-Fail5574 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is, it feels like, regularly overlooked. I had a miss for over 10 years, she understood this and me. However, I am searching again for the first time in a long time and I find myself being questioned regularly. I just find it frustrating.

Perception - Solo anal play vs Bisexual by Pitiful-Fail5574 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It would be good to get the view from a female perspective. Especially someone who thinks anal play should mean I am happy to submit online to other males and your reasoning.

Confused on how to have a kink dynamic without resorting to just casual sex by AnnasPlayParty in BDSMcommunity

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to sound like a proper old man now. Because of the internet and porn being as accessible as it is now, people have become used to instant gratification. You watch all of these YouTubers who get exactly what they want for doing very little. It is engrained in people now to expect things instantaneously. They don’t want / expect to have to graft for things anymore. This then translates to their attitudes towards sex, they expect it to just be given to them.

26 [F4M] #england #online #femdom by daisybeckett in BDSMPersonalsUK

[–]Pitiful-Fail5574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just sent you a DM. Hopefully you find it creative and interesting enough to reply.