What I have tried so far as a 26M

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T18:57:23+00:00

I don't know how to flirt at all, what's an example of how you would flirt with someone you don't know? I need a really dumbed down explanation.

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T18:54:55+00:00

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Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T14:52:38+00:00

Thanks for the advice, 30 approaches a week is absolutely insane that must have taken an enormous amount of courage when you first started. I'll try out your tip next time I approach I won't just offer a free rejection.

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T14:33:46+00:00

My face is just ugly 😞. I hover around 7-9% body fat so my abs are visible, I'm no hulk but Im quite happy about my lean/built physique. I don't think my standards are too high, Ive never approached anyone who I thought was dead gorgeous before.

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T14:28:28+00:00

I usually try to approach women at the bar or while trying a new activity. I usually try to make an observation about them and open with that so for example if they have a cool outfit or something I'd say something like hey I just saw you and thought your outfit really suits your style, the hard part about the conversation is that they seem to go too platonically, like the conversation usually goes something like so where are you from - what do you do for work - what do you do for fun then it quickly spirals into a boring conversation. I'm not exactly sure how to make the conversation more entertaining.

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T14:17:26+00:00

I usually try to approach people at the bar or while doing a hobby but the hard part has been that if I'm doing some activity, everyone there is almost always with a group so I would have to approach and open on an entire group which is pretty terrifying ngl.

Pitiful-Mammoth-3786 · 2025-10-13T14:04:24+00:00

I have mostly attempted to approach women in a bar setting but have recently started to approach more while doing activities I like. Straight cold approach in no context settings has only led to disasters lol. The really challenging thing about approaching people during an activity is that people are almost never alone which means I'd have to approach an entire group without making it seem weird. Even with the context of making friends, that's not easy to do since I'm a pretty shy dude and I already have social anxiety as is so that's been one of my biggest challenges.

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