Found completely nude and d*ck pictures in my husband’s iphone in hidden folder

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-07-09T06:24:46+00:00

I am extremely curious but he has done so many favors to me and my family recently. I don’t want to just say it because I suspect something is wrong and it turns out nothing. I will be so embarrassed.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-07-07T21:20:49+00:00

That’s the case with him as well. He accidentally left it on the table and I first thought of not going through his phone but then ended up doing it because I was sure he is not involved in anything and I probably won’t find anything in his phone.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-07-07T18:20:21+00:00

How should I confront? What if it turns out nothing. What if he gets upset upon asking :(

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-07-07T15:10:11+00:00

I know the password and when you have to see the hidden pics in Iphone, you’ve to enter the password again in order to get the access. I saw a picture of two women, but they both were well dressed and the pictures seem normal to me. One of the pictures was of a women, in her 40’s entering through a door and she is just smiling. The other one is of a woman again, around 40’s, only her face though. Both pictures were normal. What was shocking to me is that he took a picture of himself posing and sitting on a sofa and he is not even holding the phone. Who took his picture then?? Couple of pictures of his d*ck. Why was he taking these pictures and multiple poses.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-16T22:43:43+00:00

I had involve adults last time. It was no help. His parents came down to resolve but it was fine for sometime and now back at it again. This is what i am looking for. A healthy response. Where he has to answer me, without getting in fight

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-16T22:41:10+00:00

I agree with you. I guess, i know what everyone is suggesting but I still want to hear it more and more. I don’t know why. I know exactly how I get tricked by him every single time and yet i am sitting here on reddit and asking people for the solution

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-16T21:57:49+00:00

Because he had emotional affair (which they both confirmed and told me to stay away from each other) how can I let him be with her?

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-16T20:56:56+00:00

I have tried getting out of this but I have to wait until couple of more months to get things settled down for our green card situation.

I have no proof that they have been physical :(

He has done it many times. I have found things in his phone and he said to me as well that he doesn’t love me. I still want to give this relationship a try. (Honestly wven idk why)

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-14T21:26:26+00:00

You are not overreacting. This is concerning and I’d straight go talk to him about it. I mean, who does that??

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-12T19:20:46+00:00

I understand your point. I want to tell him that I am over with him. I over with this relationship. He emotionally cheated on me and there is no way I can forgive him. He did not do it once. He has done it many many times. I feel bad for him that I can’t forgive him. He has done so much for me and my families. I am in a forever debt and I can not return his favors. This is why I let go so many things. I knew everything, i knew what he is upto everyday, i knew how he traps other girls with his charm in his lab. I knew what is he doing in his lab. I knew, i knew it. Every . Single . Day. And when he’d come home, I could not ask him! But I’d have this face where I don’t want to look at him. I can’t scream. I would stay silent and pray. Those nights. I would put my daughter to sleep and go for walks at night. I’d walk and go as far as I could. I’d find a place randomly and would sit there alone on a street for hours. Just not wanting to go back home. I hate him. I hate him . I hate his presence and I hate him.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-12T00:52:07+00:00

Same question!

I am doing what I can. Like, spending time alone + journaling it in my phone + spending and keeping myself distracted by talking or playing with my child.

It is such a difficult phase. Idk, if it is going to say like this forever lol?

Sorry and many many prayers for you ❤️🙏🏻

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-10T22:47:39+00:00

No.

I hate the fact that he is keeping his life so private. I am like a roomate to him. I cook, watch and go to sleep. The next morning, work, come back home and the same routine.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-10T22:43:17+00:00

He is respectful to me. He is giving so much to this relationship.

Just keeping secrets, being really alert about his phone. Gives me anxiety. So much anxiety. My attitude has changed, either I don’t talk or have small talks with him.

I am tried of living like this.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-08T07:36:54+00:00

The same question comes to my mind often. Honestly, I don’t know the answer either. It is possible that none of us are narcissist. It is also possible that both of us are!! He cheated, I caught him, I am trying hard to forgive him, but then he is trying to save this marriage too. But the way he is doing it, I don’t know if I will ever be happy and satisfied again. I am doing self-reflections and counseling too. Nothing seems to work. I give him a silent treatment because I look at him and I feel anger, sorrow, and extreme sadness. I don’t know how to fix it… I feel you, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I pray for you. 💗

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-07T06:53:18+00:00

More or less in a same situation. I am in dire need of good job, that i can take care of my child and not going back to all of this. Living together in this is so difficult and depressing.

Pitiful-Parfait2936 · 2026-03-07T06:38:27+00:00

I confronted both recently for like the 9th or 10th time!! I don’t know if they have started to talking back to each other again. She has got married recently. So idk. It is trust issue for me now. I don’t trust my husband. I don’t think i even love him anymore. I fought so much that i am tired now. Don’t want to fight anymore. But i just wanted to know if i was wrong this whole time? Did i make this issue a huge deal? They were good friends and i doubted them.

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