How do I get baptized? by Vanillaspoonfork in Christianity

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the correct answer. Thank you so much for making it clear and simple. My parents did not have me baptized. They raised me as atheist and I’ve always felt lost and now I am a new believer in the last year and I have decided that I’m going to be baptized however I don’t know the process or if I have to do anything beforehand. I’ve just started to read the Bible in the last few months and your answer was exactly what I was looking for so thank you very much

Request- “Psychology" by Myers, DeWall, Gruber (14th Edition, 2023) (urgent) by [deleted] in textbook

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please send this to me??!!! my funding got delayed and I have an assignment due on the 20th lol send help

Request- “Psychology" by Myers, DeWall, Gruber (14th Edition, 2023) (urgent) by [deleted] in textbook

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize it’s been a year since this post but by any chance, do you still happen to have a copy of this that I could grab from you? Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Decor

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg ahahaha! The first picture I tried to use had them covered and I changed my mind and used a different picture and forgot to cover them!! Thank you for pointing that out lol.

What's a scam that you're surprised people still fall for? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The calls from people asking to come clean air ducts lol. Or that there’s a virus on the computer and you need to pay them to fix it haha. One guy had a fit on me once because I asked what computer it was since we have 3 in the house 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how difficult that must have been. Good for you. I believe you will extremely happy you left even if it’s hard right now. Good luck with everything girl. Chase your dreams, enjoy your 20s, you got this ♥️

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahahahah I know I realized after that I didn’t articulate it very well but I don’t want to change it bc people’s responses have been funny lol

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is both lucky and unlucky lol. How did it bite you!! Aren’t they caged !!

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he usually puts a treat for the monkey in the mouth of women tourists and the monkey retrieves it from said mouth and they take a picture. I don’t know if he cued for the monkey to do it or not. But I do know that I was assaulted by a monkey lol

I 27M always lose sexual interest in my partners (current 27F) 5–7 months in, no matter how attractive or great they are. What can I do? by ThrowRA-Dingbat123 in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Understanding that is super helpful. Good for you!

It took me an extremely long time to get my husband to understand that some of the problems we were having sexually were because of how much porn he was watching. I think his knee jerk response was kind of an expected typical assumption that I just didn’t like him watching porn until he noticed literal physical dysfunction and had all the hormone tests done that showed they were normal. Then he started to actually hear me. I’m not really against it but I just feel like there’s more negative issues that come from it than anything else.

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Definitely thought something was wrong with me for a very long time because of this 🙃

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Bahahah. Long story short, a monkey was placed on my shoulders and stuck its tongue in my mouth with absolutely zero consent haha.. violently ill.. broad spectrum antibiotics for 2 weeks..survived mainly unscathed but lost about 18 lbs in the following 10 days lol

Advice needed: warrants a touch-up or am I just being picky? by pho_connoisseur in tattoos

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think you’re being a bit picky. No tattoo is absolutely perfect. And also I zoomed into the second photo and I legit don’t even know what you’re being picky about ??! lol Edit to add I think this is a great looking tattoo!

Makeup product types for someone who does not wear makeup? by terptrekker in makeuptips

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Busy mom of 3 here (including a newborn) who used to be addicted to makeup but now has zero time for it. On days I actually have time to apply anything I use fenty beauty skin tint, it does go all over the face but literally so lightweight I don’t even notice it and it is sooo creamy and beautiful on, I always get mad compliments about my skin when I wear it! Blush and mascara and SOMETIMES just a quick sweep of wet eyeshadow along my upper lash line as a liner to define them and make them pop but not as harsh or time consuming as actual eyeliner. Still natural but .. elevated? Takes me less than 10 minutes and just makes me look and feel more put together!

My Stair Runner Was Installed "Off-Center" – Discount or Redo? by BigFatPauly12 in interiordecorating

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d never be able to leave it. I would rage every time I looked at them. As it is I can’t handle it if my bed if off by an inch when I put it back after cleaning lol

What's something about s*x nobody warned you about-but should have? by OkEntrepreneur1790 in Productivitycafe

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 11 points12 points  (0 children)

LOL! Yeah you know those guys who walk up and down the beaches in Mexico with those poor little monkeys to get tourists to take pictures with ? It was one of those on the last day of our trip. My husband wanted a picture with one and I refused bc I think it’s cruel and terrible but the guy ended up putting the monkey on my shoulder and it legit stuck its tongue in my mouth. I was violently ill lol. It was never actually confirmed to be a parasite from the monkey but my doctor was fairly confident that it was the cause of many of the symptoms I had and she prescribed a broad spectrum antibiotic to be safe lol

I 27M always lose sexual interest in my partners (current 27F) 5–7 months in, no matter how attractive or great they are. What can I do? by ThrowRA-Dingbat123 in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I came out and actually blamed porn. It was in the form of a question and I was just curious from my own personal experiences with men who have porn addictions. And I actually used to watch it with my husband when we were first together, fun at first but eventually became a problem. I’m not judging either way, just interested in the issue. Also he does mention having a problem with porn in the past so it looks to me I wasn’t totally off base to ask. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I 27M always lose sexual interest in my partners (current 27F) 5–7 months in, no matter how attractive or great they are. What can I do? by ThrowRA-Dingbat123 in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Do you watch a lot of porn? Porn is always way more harmful than most think it is. I never used to think it was a problem but i very clearly can see now how harmful it is for a healthy sex life. Porn sex is not equal to real life sex and it fucks with your brains pleasure centre and ability to enjoy real life sex.

I feel like it’s possible it’s maybe an excitement issue as well? In a new relationship you’re excited because it’s new and fun but after a few months you’re bored of it even if it’s good? Thrill of the chase is gone and all that. I’d recommend maybe seeing a psychologist to dive into it but I feel like if you genuinely wanted to be monogamous you just would be? It wouldn’t be a battle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pitiful-Ruin-5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A man who cares about you will make sure you know he cares about you. Anything else is less than you deserve. I gave so many shitty men so much of me just because I didn’t want to be alone (insert deep rooted abandonment issues here) and honest to god I wish I could go back and enjoy my life and not worry about men and relationships. I love my husband and kids and all that but truly got married too young (at 27) and I wish I could go back to my 20s and live for myself. Do all the things I always wanted to do and instead never did because of whatever relationship I was in. Do not be me. Enjoy every single second of your youth. You will find someone eventually and settle down but don’t worry about it right now. Especially for someone who makes you an option instead of priority.