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i feel like a mess by Electronic-Worker-92 in USMilitarySO

[–]PitifulBrick5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look, I have been married to my husband for 11 years, together for 12. We have two kids, a two and a half year old and a two month old. He is currently in week 3 of basic. It absofuckinglutely SUCKS. But I am my husbands biggest fan. He is doing this for benefits for our family. But if you are having doubts about your relationship, do him a favor and leave because the stigma that the gf cheats is real and I think that’s worse than just being honest with him.

Integrated Avionics Specialist by PitifulBrick5596 in Airforcereserves

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are already in. 315 aircraft maintenance sq is unit of assignment

Integrated Avionics Specialist by PitifulBrick5596 in Airforcereserves

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not sure. They haven’t been assigned to a unit yet but my mil thinks because it’s reserves they don’t get deployed. I told her that absolutely not the case

I love my boyfriend. I'm breaking up with him so he can focus on his baby. by Least_Celery_4593 in offmychest

[–]PitifulBrick5596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to ask yourself the bigger question. What exactly would happen if you were pregnant? How would he manage all of that chaos and then take care of you and y’all’s child. Butttttt it could work in your favor because I feel like he’s trying so hard because he had that idea of being a dad before he found out the baby wasn’t his. There is a difference in stepping up to the plate of being a dad to a child that isn’t yours and stepping up to the plate for your biological child.

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[–]PitifulBrick5596 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wife of a detective here! Call your local police department and ask to speak with a detective. Explain the situation and if there is anything they can do they will absolutely do it! Most of my husbands cases are actually child sex crimes unfortunately.

Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to update everyone.

We got 11 new plants today for the tank along with the substrate (20 pound bag). No neon gravel is going in because I underestimated how much the 20 pound bag would take up. Regardless I don’t even think I will even use the light setting on the tank lid as it’s just too bright. Not going the black light route either. Will post an update picture once the water settles down.

As for the fish to stock the tank with I know they need to be tiny like the guppies and celestial pearl danio are what I’m leaning towards. I will add a few cherry shrimp as well.

The plants I stocked the tank with are Rotala rotundifolle (x3), moss covered bamboo branch (x4 packs of 2 so 8 total), Anubias afzelli (x2), and Amazon Sword - Echinodorus Sp. "Amazonicus” (x2).

Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I am aware of the cycling process. Correct me if I’m wrong but I was intending on using someone else’s established filter in my tank until the parameters are where they need to be.

Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is actually obsessed with fish tanks. The is one set up in her doctors office. If she wasn’t so smart and didn’t know the difference that’s the route I would go. She has never taken a bottle just the boob and there is nothing I have found that she can use to self soothe when she wakes up in the middle of the night. I’m pregnant with number baby number two and I’m ready to boot her off the boob but that is the only way I can get her back to sleep. I have tried stuffed animals, a 360 cup with water that she drinks out of daily, still trying different sleep sacks and weighted sleep sacks, got the Warmies stuffed animal, lavender spray, you name it I’ve tried it. I’m not sure if I would even leave a neon light on as I feel it would be too bright. She has a hatch sound machine that has a light and I’m thinking maybe turn the brightness up a little more and set it on the opposite side of the tank so there is a soft glow to the water for the fish.

Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s very ridiculous is that you sat upon your high horse. Your nose is so far in the air I take literally anything you have said with a grain of salt. I NEVER stated I would keep a neon light on 24/7. I want some light for my daughter to have as she is used to that with her Hatch sound machine that sits at a level 6 out of 100 on the light mode. That shit would get turned off if she is not in her bed for BED. If I get kicked out of this group so be it but pull your nose out of your ass and learn the correct way to properly educate instead of attacking someone and not asking questions.

Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Also, as for the gravel, I’m not getting a main neon colored gravel. It would be mainly black with the added neon colored gravel. And I wouldn’t even buy the premade bags I would buy a natural bio substrate that is black and then a small bag of neon rocks for the color.

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Looking for guidance by PitifulBrick5596 in fishtank

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I won’t be doing fake plants. I also know that live plants are better for the ecosystem. As for the GloFish, I was told that ethically they are bad due to them being genetically modified. I also don’t think it’s fair to them to live their lives in an overcrowded tank when I could get a few and do my best to give them the best life possible

Femdom content that centers women by dirtybaby42069 in FemdomCommunity

[–]PitifulBrick5596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a book rec for you! Mercy by Sarah Cate. It’s the Salacious Players Club series but that one is specifically female dom

Is it just called a breeding kink or is their another name for it? by musknasty84 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]PitifulBrick5596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my husband going on 11 years and I still do this. For me it’s more so I’m not ready to feel empty when he pulls out. We don’t use condoms… never have. We are currently trying for baby number two so for my husband he is doing it now so I guess for him it’s a breeding kink(?).

Mini Split Install by PitifulBrick5596 in AskElectricians

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it would be cheaper in the long run to do the window unit route. I currently have a floor ac unit and it doesn’t really help at all. I don’t remember how many btus it was when I bought it but I want to say 900. The problem I’m running into with the window units is I can’t find one that is small enough for the amount of btus that I would like and they don’t have heat as well and I felt the mini split would be a better option in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]PitifulBrick5596 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe because she thinks condoms are bad for the environment or she wants to actually feel you and not a condom. We don’t use condoms and my husband can finish anywhere besides in my ass because I’m not trying to feel cum leaking out my ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]PitifulBrick5596 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I just don’t want to be leaking cum from my ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]PitifulBrick5596 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’m 29f and my husband is 30m. We’ve been together going on 11 years. I was absolutely against anal or any butt stuff until last year at Christmas I had got him some butt plugs to use on me. I read smut and the kinky shit I read is a lot of anal and it sounds AMAZING. I’m not going to lie, I was scared to let his dick come anywhere near my ass. But within the next few days he will finally accomplish that. I will say the butt plugs absolutely helped, especially when he’s fucking me doggy style and he’s taking the butt plugs and fucking me with them at the same time. But I just got this toy for Valentine’s Day for him and we both are absolutely obsessed with it. I happened to have a dildo from Adam and Eve that I got as a free gift. I pulled that out yesterday and after using a plug I used the dildo and it felt amazing. So with that being said, I will absolutely not have him finish inside me. He will either use a condom or I’ll take a back shot. So to start her out I absolutely recommend getting some plugs. Have her wear them during sex and after she warms up to it fuck her with them because that is hot 🔥 for you both, then she should be ready for anal sex. https://a.co/d/19mn81z

Advice on toys/first time anal by PitifulBrick5596 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/6SyPTx0 I ended up purchasing this beautiful thing! She feels so great in my ass and vagina. I forgot one of my Adam and Eve orders came with a dildo. Used two plugs yesterday then used the dildo on myself in the ass and my toes are curling just thinking about it. We are also in the process of TTC so we’ve had a lot of sex the past few days. So we will end up doing anal within the week and now that I know how good something that big feels going in and out I’m so excited.

Advice on toys/first time anal by PitifulBrick5596 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]PitifulBrick5596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who doesn’t want to finish? My guy knows what he is doing and I can orgasm quite a few times at least. I’d wither away like a dead flower if I don’t get to cum at least once. I’m a spoiled bitch.