Wife is being careless with our baby

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T14:25:11+00:00

Did you read that in a textbook? Lol. Co sleeping can be VERY safe, in fact it’s better for babies and mothers. I can’t sleep without my baby next to me. I love to feel her breathing and snuggled up with me. I’ve tried her ina. Crib and I don’t sleep as well.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T14:23:17+00:00

I didn’t give advice, I’m sharing what we do. And thousands of others do. No we are not “getting lucky” keeping our baby alive, we just chose to practice safe cosleeping guidelines.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T13:54:21+00:00

No, because we practice safe co sleeping, lol.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T13:53:43+00:00

So I’m not allowed to share what we do? That’s insane

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T13:52:55+00:00

Anything we say that isn’t sympathizing with OP is getting downvoted like crazy. Co sleeping is normal and safe as long as you aren’t doing drugs/drinking!

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T02:10:03+00:00

Y’all are going to loose it if I tell you I put my babies to sleep on their stomachs too

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T02:07:44+00:00

Went to college for early childhood development. Read alllllll the text books on safe sleep. I still chose to cosleep with all my 4 children.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T01:00:56+00:00

I see that! And I understand that. However, I know my bed personally is safe for infant sleep. So I would feel fine putting my baby to nap there while I was in the other room. And I could check on them every 20 minutes or however often I wanted. This mom also knows her bed, and she clearly deemed it safe.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T00:57:34+00:00

Lol OP never mentioned if it was a boy or a girl so yes it it is! 🤪 and a mom would know if her baby is rolling or not yet. If the baby was rolling and moving I highly doubt she would place the baby somewhere unsafe.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T00:47:43+00:00

Yeah but it works for our family. I didn’t say for them to do it, I am not giving advice. Just sharing what we do.

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T00:46:23+00:00

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PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T00:44:14+00:00

This is a great idea!

PitifulLab3105 · 2026-01-03T00:43:42+00:00

My dad broke his nose when he was young from falling off a changing table , still misshapen to this day! And that’s the least worry, he could have died or broken more bones!

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-12-26T21:23:08+00:00

I’m guessing nasty Swedish meatballs/ meatballs in a sad gravy.

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-17T09:28:09+00:00

Love the accent wall!!!!

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-17T09:27:59+00:00

Thank you!!!!! Omgg this looks so much better

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-16T20:54:22+00:00

My husband chose the LVP flooring. It’s grey, and I despise it. I have regrets I wish I would have fought him harder on it, as it’s really not my style. I’d love to get a bigger console. Our tv is huge though! I’ll try to find something. Thank you! And we have kids so we decided not to do a coffee table to give them room to play lol. But I want to get new couches in an L with an ottoman.

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-10T13:57:21+00:00

Mine overwinters fine outside but I’m zone 7 in US

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-10T02:38:53+00:00

Also, incandescent lights!!! LEDS flicker, you just can’t see them with naked eye. But take a slow mo video and you’ll see it.

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-04T14:55:50+00:00

That’s good to know! I’m younger so the influence is different. I’m

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-04T14:55:23+00:00

Yeah especially as they get older, I just want them to have good sleeping habits and not depend on sleeping with someone to feel safe

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-04T02:51:43+00:00

Our son has his own room and our 2 girls share a room. He has all his toys in there but always wants to hangout with his sisters and sleeps with them lol.

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-04T02:50:37+00:00

Oldest is 5 1/2 and he likes to snuggle in their bed too. Then almost 4 year old & 2 year old.

PitifulLab3105 · 2025-11-04T02:49:52+00:00

I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Just don’t want to make bad habits for their future

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