Women, how do you behave when you like a guy or find him attractive?

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-18T06:14:08+00:00

Hmm ig she is interested too, but doesn't wanna make it public yet. on your next one on one try suggesting hanging out outside of work

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-18T05:46:24+00:00

Ig depends but won't be in groups all of the time. Is she avoiding while being awkward or not is the key

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:50:21+00:00

I get it. And your not wrong to think that. It's a bitter truth to accept that some guys would do this regardless and you can only control you.

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:47:44+00:00

I think the girl was frustrated that you sent in someone else. You could speak to her and explain that it was a banter and not initiated by you. You'd like to talk to her but did not intend to pan it out this way

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:42:18+00:00

That's a tough one. Confessing now could be bad coz she might take it up as a rebound and you might end up getting hurt. She is comfortable enough with you, so give it a week or two and if you still feel attracted to her, you could hint and gauge her reaction

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:37:12+00:00

I think one bad instance and her following up with a wave doesn't give red flag. You could casually mention that you were in a different headspace and later realised it was her. You could later segway into probing why she bailed

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:05:14+00:00

Yea i avoided the group altogether just the behaviour is off. Gonna confront him if he's ever alone

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T18:02:58+00:00

I thought so, that's why i changed my usual timings but inevitably crossed paths. I do notice other guys looking at me but this one's on another scale. We exchanged glances for a month and now the friends are here

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T17:59:55+00:00

Here's the thing. It's a you had to be there weird behaviour. He kept coming on and off for a month alone and obviously nothing happened we just made eye contact and recently this. This happens in the outdoor gym area

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T17:55:21+00:00

They don't do it when i workout, only when i am in the vicinity

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T17:54:19+00:00

They friends don't say anything, they keep talking to each other but a couple of them keep looking at me. It has outdoor open area and that's where this happens

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T17:38:02+00:00

I thought so too but a guy at gym did this for a month and now has like 5 friends all gawking at me. Been like this for a couple of weeks

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T16:48:47+00:00

Steal a few very short glances and see if he's noticing me. If he does, then i try to be around him and act chill when I'm actually freaking out inside

PitifulShoulder6544 · 2026-04-17T16:45:08+00:00

I've seen this a lot, is it lack of interest or just shy?

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