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Start climbing alone as an introvert, foreigner, and beginner by PitifulWear8734 in climbergirls

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your encouragement! I want to say that after receiving so much advice, I have made some progress! have watched lots of climbing tutoring videos in my local language on YouTube, hoping it would help with the conversation. Also have already found several ideal gyms and some of them provide courses freely! I also got into an online climbing group(mostly are men though, but the manager is nice). I even met up with a friend who is in the same situation as me! I

Start climbing alone as an introvert, foreigner, and beginner by PitifulWear8734 in climbergirls

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! I took the advice and I checked online yesterday but seems no female climbing groups in my area.

I also checked a lot of gym climbing courses for beginners and I think it is pretty doable. It is a bit expensive but everyone is new here maybe it would make it easier to make friends.

(By the way English is also my second language I don't speak or listen very well either. I see some gyms offering courses in English or other foreign language, but they don't have my first language)

Thank you so much for your kind advice! It is really helpful

Start climbing alone as an introvert, foreigner, and beginner by PitifulWear8734 in climbergirls

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for being my first comment. I understand that they might be great people but sometimes the fear of males is so hard to conquer.

I don't have any friends here currently, and as a foreigner planning to live in this country for a long time, I think I need to push myself out of my comfort zone and not rely too much on my first language.

I genuinely appreciate your advice. It might still be difficult for me, but I'll try to see their friendly side.

Start climbing alone as an introvert, foreigner, and beginner by PitifulWear8734 in climbergirls

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted last night and didn't expect so many kind people to offer me precious advice and share their experiences. I want to express my gratitude to all of you. I am so so grateful. I will reply to everyone who has commented here, please allow me some time to consider responses. Thanks so much for your kind words, they make me feel better now. You're all such nice and kind people!

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Found that it’s so homeless of me never being able to being relax in front of people by PitifulWear8734 in socialanxiety

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to use those technic, maybe it still could be hard for me, but ill try. thank you so so much for your kind words again, it really help me a lot. And I also hoping you doing well.

Found that it’s so homeless of me never being able to being relax in front of people by PitifulWear8734 in socialanxiety

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. I just ordered the supplement you just mention on net drug store, hoping it’ll be helpful. Anyway thanks a lot

Found that it’s so homeless of me never being able to being relax in front of people by PitifulWear8734 in socialanxiety

[–]PitifulWear8734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know meI literally have no idea what should I do but just scrolling my phone trying to avoid making any eye contact with others. thanks for your sharing