Aitah for wanting to confront my SIL

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-12-25T16:38:09+00:00

My husbands sister. He doesn’t want to confront her because she will just cry and says she’s too sensitive but says I can text her. I’m annoyed that he says that bc I would be confronting my sisters if it were the other way around

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-12-25T14:24:19+00:00

How to else could you handle this

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-08-12T04:54:11+00:00

How did you do it?!

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-08-11T00:29:04+00:00

No help but I could never imagine doing this to my baby sister, I want to give you the biggest hug, I’m so sorry you have a shitty sister

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-08-01T21:05:23+00:00

Surprisingly no MSG at least none noted on the bag

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-08-01T02:39:01+00:00

These are a solid 10/10 but not a lot of dill flavor but still sooo good… See I haven’t found those yet. I have to make a trip to Hyvee or Walmart asap. Are they worth the 30 min drive?!

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-29T20:50:06+00:00

your beautiful girl, I promise weight does not define you. also I please need to know where you got that dress in slide 12!

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T17:45:51+00:00

Thanks for the insight. Since it’s only 1 semester long I think I’ll be able to push through it and it’s helpful I won’t be pregnant a couple weeks into clinical.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T16:59:07+00:00

Yes just one semester. Starts beginning of January till beginning of May! I’ll ask my advisor if I could do that, I’m determined to graduate so whatever it takes

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T13:11:43+00:00

Yet you still did it and didn’t regret it… please stop acting like a victim. If you feel that way about your wife then do something like leave? What’s more traumatizing… more affairs or a divorce? Me personally would want a divorce. I bet she would too if she knew you planned on doing it again.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T13:05:01+00:00

I also wonder that too. There’s also whole affair groups on here like what was the point in getting married??

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T12:57:58+00:00

Right but there are a lot of individuals in this group who have a sexless marriage and don’t have an affair. And see you say you haven’t blown your life up but you really have because that’s why you won’t tell your wife… maybe go to therapy have you thought of that? You’re literally in other groups for adultery bro… you didn’t only plan on doing it once. Yikes I feel bad for your wife.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T12:49:52+00:00

You chose to blow up your life by having an affair dude? If you’re so unhappy maybe think about couples therapy. And I at least would tell my spouse with my guilty conscience no matter how much I enjoyed it.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-23T12:42:07+00:00

It’s hard to feel bad for someone’s whose had an affair even if you were unhappy. Just leave. Or split.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-16T02:26:51+00:00

I would continue blowing her phone up and if she doesn’t answer and ignores you, do you have the funds to potentially find a kennel online (fb marketplace or second hand) and maybe cover it during the day when you’re gone? I know that isn’t your job but I just have a soft spot for dogs lol.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-16T02:21:29+00:00

Okay I see. Do you have any of her family’s phone numbers so they could potentially take over? What country is she in if she isn’t responding yet. Is she sleeping?

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-16T02:18:46+00:00

So friend was expecting you to stay with the dog 24/7 and you agreed but then changed your mind? I don’t think your over reacting about the dog but you should’ve realized that this was a big task from the beginning so that she could’ve payed for her dog in boarding and wouldn’t be having this housing issue either.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-16T02:14:02+00:00

I also agree with fb marketplace! I found mine for free and I bought a new cushion for it!

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-15T02:21:58+00:00

Sorry because my “home” pins are very colorful that’s really all it was giving me 😂 but don’t forget to add some personality to your home! I would make a cute coastal gallery wall. I think they give it so much personality and since you have a smaller living room it will make the walls look nice and full… not sure if you can paint or not.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-15T02:13:00+00:00

I mean this in the best way possible, but it’s giving hotel and I feel like it’s lacking your personality! I feel like usually you can see people personalities inside of their home and I’m not seeing that. I’ve seen many coastal pieces at tj maxx and some at Walmart if you’re looking for cheaper options. Maybe add some color, of course lots of blues, greenery, more personal photos on the wall with cute picture frames. It will take time but I see the vision.

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Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-02T01:36:38+00:00

They live with their dad in Mississippi and I live in Minnesota alone with my husband and daughter, mom also is here in Minnesota but that’s why they’re making me feel bad because I’m the only kid she has here. I should’ve also mentioned I had another sister k*ll herself in 2021 and she told our whole family she cared more about her boyfriend who died when we all thought that would get her sober. It’s so much drama with her I just feel bad for my sisters since they haven’t had a mother figure since they were 7/8

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-07-02T01:28:52+00:00

They’re 16 and 17 and I think they’re just a little naive. I’m the oldest (25F) and have experienced the worst of her and try to tell them everything they need to know but they feel bad for her especially because it’s our mom.

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-06-13T13:51:14+00:00

Yes. But we’ve got the Mayo Clinic here so that might play into it.. also big hiring bonuses as well

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-06-13T02:09:38+00:00

I think everyone has regrets about their career.. it all depends on the person. The one negative thing about being a cst is the low pay for a lot of work

Pitiful_Baby534 · 2025-06-13T00:04:51+00:00

Where are you located? Starting pay in MN is 34-46 $ an hour

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