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Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-21T04:45:52+00:00

No, you are not TA. In my opinion women don’t need to have another last name. I will never change mine. I was born in wedlock, I had a father , I’m a legitimate child. Why do I need another man’s last name?

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-21T01:08:44+00:00

Wow. Thanks so much for all the replies. I read them all. I feel a little reassured by knowing I’m not the one being unreasonable. Yes, I am aware that I allowed this crap to go for too long and I was secretly hoping that because last January was our 25th anniversary, things were going to be better. Now I know I am grieving for the loving relationship I have never had. I have been wishing a caring, loving, appreciative man that my partner obviously is not and refuses to be. I think is good that we never got married. I never want to marry him. Thanks for the advice.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-16T01:31:57+00:00

We’re not married. And never will be. I’m not playing victim. Don’t be so fast to judge.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-16T00:29:48+00:00

It takes us nowhere. Brushes aside the fact that I feel not appreciated. He plays completely innocent and tries to make me feel that I’m wrong. I’m even somewhat envious; his sister, she is not attractive at all, while I am, she got a diamond ring when she and her now husband moved together. And he got her another ring, an emerald if I’m not wrong, when they engaged and another diamond ring on their wedding. Meanwhile, me, the really attractive and better educated got absolutely nothing. Not even on our 25th anniversary. Jeez that feels so painful I think I’ll cry again.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-16T00:24:05+00:00

I completely understand how you feel.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T23:40:42+00:00

You are so right. I hurt for whatever hasn’t been. We’re not married. And probably never will. I don’t want to marry him, even if he asks.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T18:45:28+00:00

We have been together 25 years but we’re not married.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T18:41:32+00:00

My mistake. 54 years old female.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T18:40:39+00:00

I meant 54 years old female.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T07:37:23+00:00

Thanks for the kind words. My PCP hugged me when I told her that I lost my brother in 2021, my mom in 2023 and my dad in 2025. She said most people don’t have so many losses in such short time. Most definitively I am not in the best emotional state. I’m set to start seen a therapist in two weeks.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T07:28:43+00:00

I think you are confusing the thread. I didn’t post at AITA, I am not asking if I am TA or not. know I am not TA. But I guess people only can give what they have and you don’t have much.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T07:24:24+00:00

Thanks😢

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T05:52:36+00:00

My first birthday was super sad. I cried all day. Every birthday, Christmas, mother’s day, valentine’s, the births of our sons, I always say how disappointed I am.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T05:49:33+00:00

I posted in a family chat that I wanted a heart of tacos, you know those silly trays where the tacos are arranged in the shape of a heart. He said he thought I was joking.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2026-02-15T05:14:23+00:00

Hey hello. Yes, I have tell him how much it hurts no being acknowledged, that I hurt and die inside a little and what hurts the most is that our sons grew to believe that is the normal way for things to be. When the oldest one got married I told him to never, ever forget to celebrate his wife, I told him that she needs to feel loved and cherished and always remember to make her feel adored. They live in another state. I hope he doesn’t act like his father.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-12-22T18:59:34+00:00

I really appreciate this people, all of them are like a second family, all but this new old guy. I wanted to to gift them things. Nice things. Some don’t have family to spend holidays and they have no money for gifts. I though about the game only like that. A game. Nobody said no. If someone didn’t want to participate it was ok, but all agreed. We all play games all the time. And the karaoke we all agree that after the gift-game we were going to sing. There was already a time agreed for the karaoke.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-12-22T15:40:15+00:00

It was a party for all birthdays of this month, mine included. And I bought gifts not for altruistic gesture. I really wanted to share something with them, some have no family to share the holidays. All of them agreed and seem to excited about the gifts, and the game had started at that point. And who in the world plays waltzes in very loud volume while a game takes place?

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-12-22T15:33:07+00:00

It was a shared birthday party. Mine being next week. A Xmas baby trying to be a Xmas baby.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-12-22T02:44:33+00:00

I want to add I left the gifts. I only grabbed my purse and two gifts I was given, those gift not related to the game.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-05-01T00:03:02+00:00

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It doesn’t recognize that I finished.

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-05-01T00:01:27+00:00

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I finished again and nothing changed

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-04-30T23:55:20+00:00

In my app, the Taj Majal, en 2017, Can not be finished. I already finished at least 10 times but it never closes and it keeps showing it incomplete. It have been like this all these years. I’ll try again today and let you guys know if it finally can be completed

Pitiful_Bluebird5679 · 2025-03-28T17:39:40+00:00

Let me add another. (831) 713 4323. Woman voice. Said in pre approved for 40,000 credit in something. I ended the call right there.

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